My friend Rolling, who i havent talked to in forever, his wife has cancer and i have no idea what to say to him that wouldnt sound lame or cliche. she is such a nice generious woman.
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Friends wife
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Just because someone is diagnosed with cancer doesn't mean they're dead. If your friends live in your area, offer to help them any way you can. And then follow up.
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I would just tell him that you're freinds and that you're there for him if he needs to talk about something or just to get drunk. If you see that it is taking a real toll on him, you might want to kidnap him and have a guys night out and let him just cut it loose! Be his friend and only say things from your heart.
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a guys night Errrr...she's not a guy.
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whatever... Just take the guy out if you need to.. be his friend.. Male or female.... Whatever!
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See!!! Everyone thinks im a guy! Pfft!
And he lives in florida so i cant take him out. The doctors said she has a %20 of living, all their daughter knows is that mommy is sick. i feel so incredibly sad i cant describe.
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That is very sad. You need to tell them that they are in your thoughts. Mainly, just listen. At a time like that, people sometimes don't want to call because they're uncomfortable, and they don't know what to say. It can be a very "alone" time for people. You don't need to be a poet. You need to keep in contact, if you're close to them.
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Very true. When many friends disappear because they don't know what to say, people who don't disappear are especially appreciated, even if they don't know what to say either.
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**there isn't a right thing to say to someone in this situation, just say whats in your heart and how you feel. **
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"See!!! Everyone thinks I'm a guy! Pfft!"Java, Hon, Really! I'm sorry. I just read your personal info wrong. You are too pretty, sexy and nice to be a guy.Please forgive me???
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oh i do, its just funny cause some troll in another thread thought i was a guy, i would put my picture back up but im sick of the pm's
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thanks guysits so weird, after not talking for months, i come on like hey whats up hows shirley, no ones on ts2 whats up? my wife has cancer.
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yeah put your AV back, i miss your lovely face, and great smile.As for your friend, its hard. What kind of cancer has she got do you know?
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May Shirley Waters rest in peace. 11/16/05.
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**awwwww hon, im so sorry to hear that she finally passed away, i hope it was peaceful :frowning:
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She was, he took her to disney world for the weekend and when they were at the hotel (driving back home the next day) she passed away.
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that is soo sad, and yet such a fantastic thing, having spent the weekend having, that must be something your friend can smile about through the hard times to follow.
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It's sad that she died, but it's a nice way to go. I hope I die like that, rather than a slow death of dementia in a nursing home.
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OMG, Ineligible is right. She was very fortunate. dying of cancer, or a lot of other things, can be very, very difficult.
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exactly, if we could all be so lucky to be happy our last few days and die in our sleep.