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Men are dogs, well not all of them.
For the record, I fall in the latter part of that sentence for all you hot single women out there....ohhhh yeaaa. lol j/k :laughing:
Do the sandwich or not?
In reply to:
Men are dogs, well not all of them.
For the record, I fall in the latter part of that sentence for all you hot single women out there....ohhhh yeaaa. lol j/k :laughing:
Candygirl, well..........first things first, I promise you not all men are dogs. It seems that there are men out there that don't need a reason to have sex, just a place. We aren't all that way though. Myself, I love sex, but I prefer it with someone I have extremely fond feelings for. Honestly though, it seems like we are all always looking for something to spice up or sex life, but I don't think this is the way. I like the person's idea about video taping your own lovemaking. I have actually done this and I have to say.......it was a turn on watching it later. Try that first!!!
I totally disagree, my man could not cope with seeing me with anyone else, he would be so devastated....................SOME men are dogs, but mostly they have just the same feelings as us. In the same way women look like sluts if they are up for sex, men look like wimps if they show emotion.If a guy can close off his feelings for you that easily, then there is nothing there in the first place, in my humble opinion.
You should be proud, it sounds like you have a wonderful man. :grin: I do admit, my boyfriend is wonderful too.
We had an issue over the weekend which made both of us re-think the whole sandwich idea. We won't do it. It's best left a fantasy. I will say though, that bringing up these thoughts and ideas to him has opened up a whole new area of conversation. He's very open and honest with me. I find the talk to be very stimulating while we're having sex.
you both sound like you're in a great relationship, and im glad to hear its all being kept as a fantasy for both of you
To invite a 3rd person into the bedroom takes a very strong relationship. I have seen couples that could do that with out a problem I see others that cant handle the strain. Some guys really get off on watching their women get fucked by another. most women cant stand the thought of their man being touched by another woman. This might partly be due to women being more emtional then guys.. I know when i have invted i was worreid about things, but it worked out.. we spit up over other issues. it was great to be :sexualy free" though.. it was also just as fun being the invited.. she loved having a 4 sum with 3 guys..