Ok well My girlfriend's father has cancer, its terminal, as in hes going to die within a week...
I recently moved from the San Mateo, Ca area to San Diego, Ca (about 9 hours away). I just dont know what to do. I mean i really dont know how to comfort her with this! All i want to so is be there for her and being that im so far away, i cant! All i can think of to tell her is that ill be there for her no matter what and that ill always be there, just a phone call away. and to stay strong and what not. I really can't think of anyhing comforting to say. I mean i know i can't really do anything about this situation, but i just feel so helpless and when we have our long pauses on the phone (long silences) i get worried because shes in such an emotional state of mind right now, when i dont say anything i feel put on the spot. I just dont knowwhat to do and its driving me crazy not being able to be therw for her now.... help...someone?