My bf likes to go down on me alot and he is really good at it but, he gets dissapointed because I can't cum. what are we doing wrong? how exctly does a guy make a girl cum?
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Girl cum
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You need to communicate with him and let him know what feels the best, et cetera. You don't have to directly tell him, but if he is doing something that feels good, maybe moan to let him know you like it.Other than that, just practice and keep experimenting to see what really feels good, and eventually you will orgasm
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In order for the majority of women to be able to cum (and every woman can cum) there needs to be g-spot stimulation. He's not stimulation ur gspot by just going down on you. If he wants to see you squirt then he has to use his fingers on your gpot...and a lot of practice. Google female ejaculation for the details.
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Oh wait...by 'cum' do you mean orgasm?
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By "going down" on you, I assumed you meant oral sex. Thus, he probably needs to focus his tongue on your clitoris.
He can also slip a finger or two in and stimulate the G-spot, as JenJen was discussing, while he goes down on you.
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Yes, orgasm is definately occuring but not cum. Does anyone have any experience/advice about how to best orgasm with the g-spot? Thankyou for your help!
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Get your bf to use his index and middle fingers, or his middle and ring fingers in your vagina. The idea is to put the fingers in palm facing up, about 2-3" inside, and do the gentle "come here" motion with them on the g spot (on the front wall of the vagina where the tummy is). The sensation should be a good one, and you may feel the urge to pee (but it's not pee). After some practice of relaxing and getting used to the feeling, you can try to 'release'. Once you get the hang of it, you should be able to squirt when you relax and release. It will most likely take you more than one session to be able to learn, so the both of you, have patience.
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Also, not all girls are able to "ejaculate".
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Tis so true that, i have never been able to, but hey big deal
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When I was doing research on it awhile back, I came across several places where it said that every woman has the capacity to ejaculate, cuz every woman has that gland. The only diff is the amound of ejaculate: it could be as big as a fountain or just a few small dribbles (that are probably unnoticable).
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She can spray like a water hose multiple times in one session.I'm pretty sketical of that. I'd assume it's mostly or completely urine. What organ in the pelvis besides the bladder could hold that much fluid?
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What organ in the pelvis besides the bladder could hold that much fluid? none, thats why it is URINE, when its more than maybe a cup full, or half a cup, its not female ejaculatory fluid, it's urine, you have to smell it, look at it, and sometimes taste it to tell the difference.
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Half a cup? I'd find anything beyond a tablespoon highly questionable. A guy has a prostate to store fluid, and a guy can't do much better than that.
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naw, way more than a tablespoon can come out. JenJen has done her share, usually around half a cup or just less, but there have been a time or two, were there was easily 3/4 to a full cup :laughing: (and no it wasn't pee, I tasted it, and it wasn't yellow)
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Unless you can get a lab to assay it, there's no way that it's not mostly urine. Where would 3/4 cup of fluid be stored, that just happens to come out where urine normally exits the body?This is a good experiment for an MRI machine. Anyone have one that P & J can borrow for a little while?
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also, we ALWAYS make sure JenJen goes peepee right before we get around to it, just to make sure, and there's still that amount of it, so yeah... doesnt smell, look, or taste like pee, so in our eyes, it isnt
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You still need to get her in the MRI machine for further study.
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yeah, that's not happening lmao... hhehee
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The Butthole Surfers have a song on their 1988 album, Hairway to Steven, called "I Saw an X-Ray of a Girl Passing Gas". I'm not making this up.
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It's easy to say 1/2-3/4 of a cup. What seems like that much, may in fact be much less. The only way to know, would be to capture all this fluid and measure it. It's like guys who claim to ejaculate a huge amount but in reality it's just a few teaspoons.