right well, basically this girl and i kinda fancy eachother, she went to italy on a school trip and she was aparently gonna decide how much she likes me or somthing along those lines, but her stupid friend (who previouly fancied me) basically keeps telling me that i dont have a chance in hell in a really bitter way and is just a bitch to be in generel, so when i have a go at her she turns it around to make it look like im the bad guy, and just makes things more complicated then they really have to be ie. making up shit to annoy me (well at leaste i think shes making it up), its driving me round the fucking bend....any advice as to how i should deal with the situation is much welcomed
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Advice anyone?
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Ignore the stupid friend and speak to the girl you like straight to her face, then there will be no confusion and no getting the 'wrong end of the stick' - good luck hon
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Angel is right, as usual :grin:, ignore the little trouble-making bitch. However, always be polite and civil to the aformentioned "bitch", don't give her any ammo to throw at you.
As for the girl you fancy, why does she have to think about a decision on getting togethor with you? I would think she either likes you or she doesn't. It's a simple yes or no. Is she playing head games, jockying for hand, or is she waiting for a better offer, what gives. Not trying to be a downer, just wondering.
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i know what you mean, i was thinking the same thing, but she had to think about it cause it was either me or another guy, and plus the 'bitch' used to like me so thats aparenly makes me a no go area, she did that with another one of my mates, but they still went out, him and another girl that is, but i still dont trust any of em as far as i can throw em, and cause my best friend is goin out with one of the 'bitches' best friends then im gonna ahve to see em in most social events, its a bit of a mind fuck now that i think of it
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Just my own thought here but..
if she has to think about it, why do you care?
It would seem that she is just deciding who can give her more and figuring out whos making the best offer. If all your after is some sex I guess thats ok but if you really care and want to be with this one then Id shitcan her. I prefer to know that I am who she wants and not jsut what she settled for. There is a billion women in the world and there is no reason to degrae yourself just to have one to call your own. If what you want is a serious relationship then find one that increases your happiness ancares about you instead of just what you can do for her. If it just sex, girls think of it too and I got my fair share being honest about my intentions, of course I also got slapped and screamed at more then a few times but atleast I dint lie and manipulate people just so I could bust a nut. I like to think I was above that. -
cheers guys, your all right, fuck it, if she really wants it then she can chase after me, my gran always did say, "dont go chasing after them girls" i always thought she wanted me to be gay, but now i get it!
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If more people listened to their gran the world would be a far better place.Over here in the states most people just deposit their old folks in a "retirement home" and ignore anything they have to say. What a fuck'in waste.Sorry still mad hot from another thread.Anyway, good luck.
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lol cheers, i was reading a book that said spend an at leaste an hour a week with some one older then you, cause they know kl things you dont know, and vise versa with youge ppl, so i always try to take that into account, cheers every one again
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ha, i wrote a text adressed to one of her mates/my mate, sayin, can you find out if she still likes me or not? cause i dont want to make a fucking arse of my self!, and i accidentally sent it to her!!!!luckily for me it worked to my advantage!
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How did that work out?