im pretty open. I am 15, C 32 cup, im pretty "tight", still a virgin, brown/blonde hair, 5 foot...4 inches? but im not exactly popular at school. I dont think im that pretty, but I dont know...Anyway the reason I'm posting is because a while ago this really hot guy from my school, hes real popular, nice, hot , built, and on my highschools baseball team, and he asked me out a little while ago! like i said, im not popular at all. We've been going out for a little while, and he seems perfect. He's strong, nice (he carries my books and opens doors and stuff, and he hasent pressured me at all for sex. He just said "you know how I feel about it, and I know how you feel about it, so its totally up to you. you come to me about it, i wont pressure you". I'm just worried, I dont know why. I do think Im ready for sex, ive wanted it for a long time . What do any of you girls think? Knowing that I want to do it, do you think he's being suspicously perfect? or is he really a good guy?
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What do your looks have to do with anything? Only you can answer this question quite honestly.
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Looks dont really have much to do with it, but usually if a guy is popular are jerks (my bf's not a jerk) and only ask out the "hot" cheerleaders...
Amanda brings out a good point. There was no need to mention what you looked like (unless you were hinting towards something) and it's really up to you. IMO I don't like the whole "he's popular and hott why is he asking me out" whole deal. It's stupid and makes no sense. That's like putting another down over someone else. The same thing goes on in my school but if you think like that then what's the point. I would say 15 is kind of young but hey this is the 21st century, nobody really cares anymore.
But you should decide what is right. If you want to go ahead, if you don't then... don't. I don't think you should go out with someone just becuase they're "hott". But if he's nice like you say then what's the point in asking. :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
Good luck anway.
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I dont like the "hes popular why is he asking me out thing" either, its just the way things are...
Do whatever feels right for you! I was about that age when I had my first time. But everyones different. Good Luck
> but usually if a guy is popular are jerks (my bf's not a jerk) and only ask out the "hot" cheerleaders
You've been watching way too much tv. There is that possibility that he's not superficial and materialistic and just a really nice guy, but it also could be that he fucked every "popular" girl and looking for new pussy. No one here can tell you which on it is. Just let things happen, and play it by the moment, just don't scrutinize every move of his, or it wont end good.
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>>>"Just let things happen, and play it by the moment, just don't scrutinize every move of his, or it wont end good."
JenJen is completely right. Don't over think it. Also, quit putting yourself down and as for popularity, I never found that it had anything to do with looks. For myself I never found the "beautiful people" to be all that attractive. Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
In high school I was one of those popular "jerks" and all the popular girls that wanted to go out with me, I thought were politely kinda homely. I only went out with a few of them and found out besides not being what I considered, attractive they were generally bitches ta boot.
This does not mean that the girls I went out with were dogs, either. I certainly thought they were damn hot. They were pretty, they dressed well, smelled good and were best of all classy. As a matter of fact, I still regard a couple of them as the most gorgeous women I have ever seen, bar none. But sweety, they were not popular. Most guys thought they were stuck-up (dumb asses), some may have been but they had reason to be and they always treated me well.
As for sex do it when your ready and don't let yourself be pressured into it, and as for as that goes, don't let yourself be pressured out of it either. Just, whatever you do, be safe - make sure he wraps that rascal.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.
i lost my virginity a 16. it was my own personal belief to wait for sex until i was sure i loved my boyfriend and he loved me. i waited until i knew him almost as well as i knew myself. but like i said, that was my opinion. if you dont think love is necessary thats fine. but do make sure the decision is for you and not him. good looking guys will come and go, but youll only have one first time. so make it special.