Hi I am finally going to be going all the way for my first time! I have been naked and have been sucked and 69'ed and yada yada but never had intercourse.I was wondering what I should say to the girl, I hinted that I have little experience in a previous convo and she is fine with that, but I haven't told her I have actually never had intercourse. She invited me over to her place overnight and I believe it will happen. I am nervous and extremely turned on at the same time! I want to make it special somewhat because it's my first time. I want to request to her to let me play with her any way I want first that's all, she probably would love that I suppose...She wants me to give her a body massage, maybe that's my opportunity? I don't want her to find it burdonsome or overwhelming that it's my first time. She is very attracted to me. She is experienced, so do I just follow her lead? I want to tell her that it is my first time, but I am worried that she might not want to be my first, I am 35 she is 39, I just want this virgin thing overwith, it's not a huge deal for me. Another question, I hope this doesn't sound silly but I really love girls' hair when it's beautiful and it turns me on bigtime to play with it and brush it, and hers is very beautiful! How would I approach getting her to let me do that too? That would make it special for me.Hope to get some good advice,thanks and take care.
My First time to go all the way!! - questions
You're 35 and still a virgin? Quit making a big deal over this. Do all the foreplay stuff that you want but screw this "special first time" crap. Just do it.
To hell with the making it special crap, just enjoy it, then wait a few minutes and enjoy it again. Its going to be special no matter what you do.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.
Just be fooling around and w/e and just get up so your really horny, tease her so that she really wants it (fingering and w/e) and just do it, chances are she'll be too worked up to think about saying no, if she doesn't want to then she'll say it and you'll be fine. Also, since she's already done it I don't know if this would be the same, but my first time we did like a lot of different positions so you get a lot of expirence with which positions are easier, feel better, etc., for your next time