Hi everybody, I'm in a little bind here. About a month ago I found out this girl likes me, but when I told her that we should do something, she said she'd think about it. Now, I talked to her friend and the friend said that she has all these feelings for her ex-bf. It really sux cuz I really like this girl, and it feels like she's playing with me and is just putting me on the back burner. All I want is a chance to show her how great of a boyfriend I can be, but I'm afraid of asking her out and having her say no cuz her ex. Any input would be GREAT!! Thanks!
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Not sure...
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Forget her until she can forget her ex. Also, even though you may be a great person, she probably won't see that- all she'll see and want is her ex (depending on HOW MUCH she likes him).
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just tell her all the things you listed in your post, let her think about it, but while she is doing that go look for another girl. A wise man once said, why buy the book when you can goto a library!
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Ha ha I like your thinking
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forget her, any girl that will openly give you the idea that they like you and then say that they still have feelings for their ex has got some wiring wrong in the head. the biggest thing not to do is tell her how much you care about her and how good you can be to her, thats why girls do this in the first place. they like hearing that stuff. and you'll just feel silly later.
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All right, thanks for the advice everyone. I guess I'll just play the role of a good friend... if she says that he's out of her life, I'll move forward with it; that is if I don't have a g/f by then. Thanks again! (if anybody else has something to say go ahead )
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the worse thing that will happen is that you will just be a rebound boyfriend so she can gain control of her emotions and have you there for security. be VERY careful.