Don't tell her how u feel within the first 3 weeks of getting to know her and when u do tell her how u feel do it in person. Trust me this will help u so much. If u do it during the first 3 weeks sure her interest level will sky rocket but then it'll plummet. Learn more great lessons like this on www.askmen.com .
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If you have a crush don't do the following:
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why does it plummet?
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It'll plummet because a man can't continously keep up romantic sentiments from day 1 and then the girl will be less interested because he seemed sweet at first but now he isn't anymore. That's my interpretation. I'm sure the site explains it a lot better though.
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I wouldn't rely on askmen.com or any set of "rules"
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all people are different shrugs agreeing with Amanda here. rules only work in an unchaotic world
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I guess it's everyone's own opinion.
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If it plummets simply because the guy lets up on all the romatic stuff, then it wasn't a real relationship to begin with. There is so much more to a relationship than just romance...you need trust, love, and understanding as the basis.
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No offence weapon but you really are a dumb shit arent you? Women get aproached all the time by loadsa different blokes and how many times do you think the girl u fancied had had muppets like you spill their guts on how much you like her.I'd try to explain to you how you could improve your game and become better with women but to be fair you don't read any replies anyhow and this really is my thing but once you get a clue i'd still share it with you.
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dude I didn't do that bad.. this being my first time trying to get a woman I didn't know
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Fair enough, but just act cool. Be a MAN not a wussy.
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yeah, be a MAN. scratch yourself in public openly. dont bathe. never admit you have feelings. pick fights with anyone you can to show how HARD you are. the minute you form an emotional attachment to the piece of meat you are boning dump her. be a MANor next time just dont bare all to someone you dont know so well. those kinda things only work if you and the person you like have been VERY close friends for years. romance is all well and good, but its not what should be at the heart of a relationship. as someone pointed out before, if it is,then it isnt a real relationship
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i believe the point weapon was originally making was "don't lay it on too thick at the start"
there is a definite difference between flattering a girl playfully and being a creeper. most men dont know when they've crossed the line, due in large part because all women are beautifully unique creatures. even if you have crossed that 'line' you won't know it till you find yourself in the "friend-zone" or she just stops talking to you altogether.
good luck :grin:
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grins thats the point i was making too. you have to ignore half of my posts as they are just bleh, something i found funny at the time