Jackoffs always get the action.

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I give up. And no I don't like modelling anymore that is. But I do have self-esteem issues which will stay locked in the closet.

I have trouble finding somone who I really like and then when I do find somone they dont usialy like me back. I dont have troubble getting girls in general but I do when it comes to finding somone I like and the feelings mutual it doesnt usialy happen. Like where I live right now there is no one who I like, its so odd not to even have a crush. I have just pretty much given up trying to find somone here, if somone comes along great but if they dont no worries. I will be out this shithole soon and then in a new place hopefuly where people suck less than here. I know a girl I really like alot but she lives so far and I dont have the money or time to go see her and I dont think she likes me anymore so yeah I dont have much luck. She came down and we really liked each other alot and had alot of fun but distance is a bitch.

lol why does my avitar insult you?

I dont think alot of girls realise when a guys a perve or not they just think they are "being nice" but this is what perves do. I mean if they want to get in your pants they arnt gunna act horriable are they? You just got to be careful really. I like to be friends with somone before I date them that way I know what they are all about.

I like to do the same as you Homicidal, but then girls tell me after I find out they decided to go out with some other ass, and I ask why and they said I was never expressing interest. I mean I have asked girls to dinner and what not, thinking we were definitely moving on, but who knows. I know one girl who told me she was shallow (which is a terribly lame excuse for being careless). Well guess what now she is terribly scared of not having a family after college b/c she hops from guy to guy like a blind woman in a knife store hoping to find that door to leave, but always catching the edge. I have to say this. Girls do have one thing that they need to realize. They often confuse arrogance for confidence. I see this happen a lot and then they get hurt and mistake confidence for arrogance again and the continues. I also believe that there is a twisted meaning of love going on now a days. I know women that "love" their man to death, and he never shows any attraction back by going and cheating on them, but they are in love and she is so obsessed that her rational thought is blurred.....AAARRRRGGGHHH I get so angry...so many stupid people on this damn planet....sorry had to vent that.

hm, I spose manly as it gets is subject to opinion.I guess I don't even know myself.I'm tall, dark and handsome though. bit of manly stubble. Broad shoulders, chunky arms, always dress smart, nothing pink.BUT...I don't treat girls like ass (no matter how much they annoy me) and I'm only ever nice. That's why I don't get women.

**you sound lovely :smile: Nice guys do get the girl, honestly, it might take a while, but you will get the 'one' who you want to keep and who wants to keep you. Trust me. **

I'm not saying that this applies to you, but I think that "nice guys" sometimes sabotage themselves, through what they say and how they act. Subtle sarcasm, body language, seeming desperate, etc. can be big turnoffs.It's true that immature women are attracted to the "bad boy" types. If you're a nice guy, forget about going after women who like thugs. But there are a lot of nice guys who will be out on dates tonight.It may be comforting to think that women suck, and they just don't appreciate nice guys, but I don't buy it,as a generalization. What kind of women are you guys attracted to?

guess I can throw my two cents in right here.Steve has it right I think, arrogant or cinfident?Im both and since i found one girl that I wanted to be with Im a pretty nice guy too, mostly. But Im one of the bad boys, Long hair lots of tattoos, wear alot of leather and have alot of scars. I seem to end up getting into a lot of fights too. Used to box for a while and always been one of the that does pretty much anything it occurs to myself to be do. Take the motor cycle as fast as it goes or try jumping a 20 foot ditch thats 15 feet deep on a short run slamming gears on the bike hping to hit 4th before ya take off Absolute stupidity has gotten me alot of girls and mostly Iv beenarrogant and they seem to take that as confident. Im That too but mostly arrogant. I was really good to women on a hwole for a long time and never got mor then a kiss or hug ad hours of talking when I really only wanted some ass. After a while i was pisse and frustrated, and the worse I treatd women the better reslts I had. I peaked in my whoring days whenI played the honestly arrogant prick card and explained to girls Id met hours before that all I wanted was sex and that they couldnt have me because I was not intereste in dating anyone.I swear to god this is a great pick up line, suddenly they saw me as a challenge or somethig and thought they had to have me because they were different then all the others.I can say I was an asshole, and mean it, i can also tell you that I never had more luck with women then when I was being a bastard. as to what type of girls they were?loose and imoral, the only kind I wanted at the time. I think I could feel wht ones where low on self esteem and willing to do more then othres to get some attention. Had I wanted a relationship I dont think Id be looking at these girls who were so willing to be who I wanted just so that they had someone even if it were only for a night.When I did want a relationship it wasnt as eay to get a girl since I moved up in class. Girls with some self worth who dont hate themselves dont fall for that bullshit as easy as the ones with none.

Girls with some self worth who dont hate themselves dont fall for that bullshit as easy as the ones with none.That's an important point. The problem is that the world looks like a different place when you're 16 than it does when you're 36.I wonder how many girls have said, "But I didn't know you were interested?", for so many guys who haven't closed the deal.

Well see I thought I have the bad boy pose, not on purpose just b/c of what i like. I mean I am cut up from sports, I do extreme stuff like jumping bikes, trying to be a bmx rider which I am not. I drive a lifted Jeep, it is customized, loud exhaust, and I love the heavy metal music, So it is always loud and rebellious. I rarely listen to authority although i passively respect it. But I am a nice guy, and I can get a bit arrogant, but still no luck with ladies.

I just think it is that women at a younger age are not ready for a relationship, they want to have fun, but the funny things is you can have a crap load of fun when in a relationship. I think that people see being with someone as a ball and chain of sorts, to where they cannot do anything when it is more the opposite and you can do a lot.

I was just kidding about the avatar thing trying to make a point by... nevermind. I seem to get trapped by my issue of low self-esteem. Whenever I put myself down in any way possible I'm told "oh no you're not don't say that about yourself" and I start thinking oh he's nice.

Lol aaaaah one of those girls eh. I bet youre superly pretty but think youre fat or have a big nose or somthing that you dont. A tip from me, never put yourself down to a guy. For starters they may have not noticed the thing you pointed out or may never notice. My wise friend once told me when a girl puts herself down to a guy lots its like youre putting them down too because if youre going out with them its like youre telling them they have an ugly girlfriend. I personaly hate it when girls put themself down because it makes me feel bad for them that they are so concerned what other people think when they are so pretty, almost like they are taking it forgranted. Im guessing the reason why you would put yourself down is because other people put you down or used to like family or close friends, people who mattered to you or getting teased in junior school. I know alot of girls whos fathers told them they were fat and ugly and it effected them badly even though they werent fat at all and certainly not ugly and I could never perswade them they were not fat and ugly (or maybe they just liked getting complimented lol). Basicaly what I am saying is dont put yourself down because you should be happy with why you are and if people dont like it who cares as long as youre happy : ). Even if your not confident about how you look pretend that you are and eventualy you will be. Remember you are only young once one day you will be old but right now you are in the prime of your life so enjoy being uber pretty while your young : ).

You practically read my mind... freaky lol. But actually I'm slim and wish I was fat. Because it makes other "certain things" on my body stand out so I get really paranoid about it. It stinks, I eat but don't get an ounce, too much dancing I guess but that's not really an excuse. It would be nice if everything was proportioned. God I think you forgot something.

Lol I am sure youre fine, I wouldnt worry about it. If you obsess over small things for too long they eventualy become a big deal. >"certain things" on my body stand out If youre talking about boobs I wouldnt worry about it. Its not like anyones going man her boobs are way too big I dont wanna go near her. Probrably very much the oposite. As I said if you think about certain stuff too much it becomes almost an obsession then you start worrying about it 24/7. The main thing that makes a girl pretty (to me anyway) is how she acts. Alot of girls become alot prettier to me when I get to know them if they are a really nice person. If stunning hot chicks are really stuck up and mean then they almost become repulsive to me. I just need to find a really pretty girl whos a nice person too lol (Probrably not gunna happen cus they have bf's or they dont like me life that + where I live pretty nice girls are rare). Id just concentrate more on just keeping your apperance nice and being yourself and being a nice person. Rather than obsessing over things you cant change and that other people probrably dont even notice. Also when people put you down dont let it get to you. Remember when people get angry they will pick out almost anything to throw at you even if its really really dumb so when people give you crap dont worry about it what they are saying doesnt mean shit. Also I find alot of girls put each other doen because they are jellous. Iv had a few girls say "girls dont dress up pretty for guys, they do it to outdo other girls" I guess this is why they are so cruil to eachother sometimes. You dont often hear two guys arguing go "Yeah well I dont like your hair and your bums too big".But yeah thats my view on it, I feel like doctor phil or somthing now lol. "Doctor Possum"

Interesting. Usually I find that girls who say "I'm so fat" or "I'm so ugly" or something like that are solely seeking attention and compliments, and nothing more.

One girl I know I would consider to be almost worryingly slim, and the other day I heard her saying "I'm so fat". When I asked her about it, she said all she was doing was trying to get some guy she liked to say that she was hot, so she'd feel good. She knows damned well that she should put weight on, not lose it.

I see it happen so much.
In fact, I'd probably go so far as to say that I don't think I've ever heard a girl put herself down for a "valid reason", if such a thing exists in the first place.

Some do it for attention some are genuanly worried about it. Like I said my one friend was told she was a loser and a fuck up and fat and ugly by her dad practicaly every day until her mom left him. She had really low self eseteme issues and put herslef down alot.

Lol, well thank you Doctor Possum for your advice. I shall take it into consideration. And yes girls are evil.

Lol ya I learned that a long time ago :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:, still trying to find a drama free layed back girl. Il find one eventualy :grin:

You Do not want to be fat. I was fat for almost an entire year of life and it was living hell, People that saw me that knew me when i was big started off by saying "oh my god" And i got strech marks cause i gained it and lost it so fast. Now, after a horrible struggly im at 105-115 (and im 5'4) I for the life of me cant gain weight or lose it (cause im dancing again) And i wouldnt ever wish being fat on anyone, it is hell and horrible like nothing ive ever seen. I never knew people could be as mean as they were. I went from about 175-180 down to where i am now. (Plus, if you have a big ass or boobs they only get saggy when you get older)

POssum when you find her...CLone her and send the clone my way. If girls stopped freaking so much and think about what they look like (making them self-centered(at least for a few)) then they would have better men after them....and once again i lost my train of thought in the middle of my post....and blah blah blah blah yadda yadda yadda....