I only realised recently that every time I've ever slept with a girl I have been under the effects of alcohol. I've developed a phobia of having sex while sober, because I think I will come to quickly without the deadening effects of alcohol... when I've been drinking I can go for quite a long time but when I'm sober I'm worried that I won't be able to perform. What should I do??
Try it sober and find out.
What should you do?
Oh, I got it! Stop Drinking!
It sounds like you have never had a girlfriend. If so, your problem is more than fear of pre-ejaculation, and probably relates to a fear intimacy, relationships, etc. If you have had a g-friend and you have never had sex sober, you probably have a drinking problem.