I finally found some other people with the same problem. http://www.healthboards.com/boards/showthread.php?t=269091&page=1&pp=5&highlight=viagra There are two people in here with the same thing I have. One of them seems to have a problem with their sex drive like me whereas the other does not... however, the other is a chronic marijuana smoker. http://www.healthboards.com/boards/showthread.php?t=251154&page=1&pp=5 This one is all about hormones and suchnot. It's kinda related to my problem.I also found a topic on the afraidtoask boards about the same condition I'm talking about now... but, of course, nothing was really solved. It sure is started to look bleak. Oh well. Hey uhh. ....is there any....... other......... non-genital ways to uhh........ have an orgasm heh. I saw a woman have an orgasm just by breathing a lot one time. That was interesting.
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Ejaculatory Anhedonia
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I totally believe you, Sowerpillis. Everyone else, you can take it from me: it's definately possible to ejaculate without orgasm.When I was a teenager, I could've wanked (that's what we call jerking off over here) for England. I was masturbating several times a day and getting the most amazing orgasms. Through my 20s and 30s the sensation tailed off, so that these days I don't get very strong orgasms, and often feel nothing at all when I ejaculate. I took Strattera for ADD from October 2004 to March 2005, which made matters a lot worse. Things have improved since then, thankfully.Actually, I'm a bit unusual, some would say sad, in that I've still not had vaginal intercourse. When I've got physical with women, though, I've found that when I've come, the sensations have been stronger than what I feel from masturbating these days.
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a) Thank you very much for bumping and responding to this thread!b) "When I've got physical with women, though, I've found that when I've come, the sensations have been stronger than what I feel from masturbating these days." That's interesting. I was wondering if that might be the case for me too... although my phimosis has made me kinda afraid to get "physical" with women. The phimosis is gone yet I am still fearful hmm. It's all this pressure these days about making your woman orgasm!! Ahh!!!c) I got my hormones tested and everything's exactly normal... my doctor really thinks it's a psychological problem. It's not the problem itself that upsets me... it's the fact that so few people have it. Misery loves company, you know? Anyway... my doctor said there's a sex therapist in [ a city on the mainland ] that may be able to help me. He said he'd try and avoid me having to go over there and call the therapist to get more info. My doctor has been very helpful and manages to cheer me up each time I go to see him. It's weird though... my sex drive seems to be so low... yet all of my hormones are in tact. I actually do think I'm psychologically repressing some stuff here but I'm wondering why...I'm glad things are improving for you, Englishman.
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Would this thread get more attention in the Male Genitalia or Sexuality sections? Like, would it be more likely that someone who can shed some light on this topic would be on those boards? Could a moderator move this thread over to the more appropriate choice for me?