Just wondering how women feel about fat people

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just wondering again when you women see a fat guy approach you and start talking to you or you just see them do you think something like Wow, i'd never go out with him or what?

I dont care if a guy is overweight or not (i mean, not to sound rude but 300lbs might be difficult sex wise)

Maybe a little but a really great personality can overide that.

I agree! you know how many times people told me am the nicest guy at school then wont go out with me!

just judging from other posts, your not exactly confident and that could have a lot to do w/ it

no i find it funny that everyone says its all about confidence even though i can be as happy as ever around girls and they just ignore me!

No, I don't think that at all. In the group I hang out with there's a boy who's a little overweight but we still love him. It's not like being overweight is bad. You should see how many times the girls including me have flirted with him. It's nothing to be shamed about. He has more confidence than me at that. And he has a gf! Well now he does!

My best friend had this HUGE crush on a guy that was quite a bit overweight. She was absolutely devasted when he went out with someone else, and then his girlfriend found out that Emily liked him... Yeah, the crush ended somewhat painfully (he ended up backing his girlfriend). But still. Em had no problems liking a very overweight guy, so I would say that no, fat is not an issue. I've never liked someone overweight, but I have liked guys that were a bit chubby.

well its an issue where i live.most people are really shallow wiggers where i live.

you know how many times people told me am the nicest guy at school then wont go out with me!You're as nice and understanding and patient around the girls as you are here, and they won't go out with you? Have you asked them why, specifically, they think you're having trouble getting dates?The idea that just being a nice guy disqualifies a guy from ever getting a date is just not true. People can argue that you might be more successful being a jerk, but there are plenty of nice guys with girlfriends.

I've liked loads of overweight guys! It really isn't an issue unless YOU make it one. My (female) friend is really attractive and great personality, and she has all of these guys asking her out but she's holding out for one man, and guess what? he's pretty overweight too, but he's just brilliant and he is so so funny. Now she's turning all these guys down, and I've seen it many times before.. and you say that weight matters?? What are they going to do, stick you on a pair of scales? "oh, sorry, you're like.. a little out of the weight range for me.. go away.." yeah I can just see that.. NOT!

my man is a big big guy, 6.2, and around 19-20 stones, which is 180 pounds and then some ...............anyway, it doesn't matter to me how big he is, i love him to bits.............the thing that puts me off guys, is guys who don't have a lot of confidence in themselves, and guys who thing they are gods gift to women..........

There isn't one right or wrong answer to this question. Everyone has their own turn-ons. We would all like to think that looks don't play a role in choosing our partners, but that just isn't reality. I think weight is not as much of a factor as health. For example, there are "overweight" men that are pro-atheletes, and are most likely very healthy, but then there are very overweight people in poor health. I would think if you were considering your life partner, you would at least want someone who would be healthy enough to participate in the activities you enjoy, and be able to live as long as you without a lot of medical issues caused by weight. Personally, I have always been attracted to overweight guys. Fred Durst (vocally he sucks) is a total hottie! I was attracted to chubby guys before I gained weight myself. Now that I too have some extra ponds, I realize how difficult it is to see yourself as a catch. I guess it ultimately depends on your self-esteem. Good luck!

**fuck you bore me......................*sigh*

Yes he is fat, and i fancy the ass of every bit of him........I havnt replied to your ultimatly boring fucking posts so please don't reply to mine......... **

A question related to this post:Do you think women in general are more accepting of a guy being overweight than a guy accepting a woman being overweight?

that's a very good question....i think it's shameful to look at just weight and looks, i mean yes you have to be attracted to them but is that what really makes you happy, is looks? but as for me i kinda like hm...healthily plump:P but to be totally honest i can't ever imagine myself with somebody over 500-600 pounds:S that's just a bit over doing it :$ and well i also have some sisters that are kinda over weight like 280 lbs. but they're happy with themselves:p

**I agree it is shameful, but there seems to be lots and lots of people who only think about looks, sad really. Then again i know lots of so called good looking people who are as interesting as grass, so looks mean nothing. **

that's funny....does that mean the smell good though too? since cut grass is good to smell(unless there is dog crap):P j/k

Yes, women, in general, probably are more accepting of an over weight man than men are of an over weight women. Shallow I know, but, I think generally, true.

Now having said that, what is classified as over weight? Are we talking medically over weight or fashionalblely over weight? Whats fashionalble, looks twiggy and under weight to me and completely unattractive. A woman needs curves in all the right places, not sharp protrusions of bone sticking out everywhere. The concentration camp look does nothing for me.

>>>"good looking people who are as interesting as grass"

How true, without a good personality, ya just get the goody, if you can hold out that long, and move on to the next one. :grin:

lol so so true.