...that i might be gay. I really really dont want to be. I'm so confused But then I get turned on by girls too I think so maybe I'm bisexual. But I dont know for sure. I'm getting scared of getting close to girls now. I like looking at girls walk by and making out with them and I enjoy giving them pleasure. But when they go to pleasure me I never get hard. I get perfectly hard from looking at porn and from fantasising about girls, but I've had naked girls under me and I couldnt fuck them.I've found I can get turned on by gay stuff too. Always felt disgusted looking at gay sex online...but I'v fantasised about it a few times and read an erotic story of it that turned me on.I've been staying single cos I'm so scared now. All I wana do is screw girls and not get turned on by anything remotely gay.
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I'm scared
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I've been staying single cos I'm so scared now. All I wana do is screw girls and not get turned on by anything remotely gay.Why?You may be bi, or you may be passing through a phase. Either way, you are what you are, and you'll have to live with it.
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How old are you?
Depending on your age it's normal to be alittle confused about your sexuality.
I'll post more when I know your age, beause that does play a significate role.
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I'm 16. Even if it is normal to be confused somewhat I dont undertsand why i couldnt screw those girls :confused:
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Performance anxiety? Having performance anxiety with women doesn't make you gay.
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Okay so you're 16.Since you said you are sexuality attracted to girls, it might be the fact you are putting too much pressure on yourself to have sex. That can easily make a guy so soft. You need to take the pressure off yourself and not worry too much. You could be thinking too deeply about pleasuring your partner or ever stressing yourself out over if you gay or straight. You just need to find out what makes you calm or simply wait until the situation is right to have sex.As for the whole gay thing, you're still pretty young. I'm finding out that it's rather normal for straight guys (usually around your age) to be curious about sex with the same gender. It's part fo just finding out who you are. Who knwo you might end up gay or bi-sexual hell there's even a greater chance you'll end up straight. Time will help you straighten that out.Hope that helps some, sorry fi ti wasn't exactly what you are looking for. if you have more questions or concerns feel free to ask, I'm more than willing to give any advice I have.Take care.
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Cheers buddy. Its what I expected to hear but I needed reasurring.Perfomance anxiety probably is it but its happened with three girls now. I put down the first time to stress cos i wanst gettting horny atall at any time, my parents were splitting up and I was getting alot of shit at school. But I feel its liek satrted a cycle I cant get out of now. I dont mind being a vrigin as such I just wish I didnt have to be worried about anything
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Teenage years can be really frustrating. Just follow your emotions and you'll be fine. Take some deep breaths and just know things do get easier. =-D
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I agree with NtroducingMyself. And it's good to see you back!