alright.. well.. i have resently started going out with a girl (this is my second relationship) and right now im kinda stuck... im worryed that im going to start acting all horny and whatnot if i dont masterbate soon.. and i dont think its right to look at pictures other girls while doing it.. but i dont think its right to think about her.. erm.. without her permission.. which im not about to ask for anytime soon ... um... anyone have any advice? i mean... is it ok to think about her in your opinion? girls advice is esppesialy welcome... thanks
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Moral dilema-ish
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Thinking about her isn't going to hurt anyone. Don't feel guilty. You don't need to. Have fun.
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thank you for your input.. its appreciated
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Acting all horny n stuff as you say may scare the shit out of her and drive her away LOL just masterbate to whatever or whoever and get on with it, if you don't want to masterbate to other women, masterbate thinking about her, and no don't tell her.............I fantastise about Vin Diesel but i don't feel the need to send him an email to tell him that LOL
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right that was what i was scared of.. (scaring her off ) but.. i dont know.. vin diesel is an acter.. all public and he knows it, so he kinda might accept that as part of the job... arg... the only reason i dont feel righ about it in her case is that she never 'singed up' for that kind of thing.. would you mind a guy thinking aobut you like that?
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Oh my, dont be so foolish. Think about or watch whatever it takes to get you off.
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Everyone masturbates. Everyone. Even your girl. And everyone masturbates to whatever gets them off. What's going on in your brain is your business, whack off to anything you want and don't feel guilty.
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would you mind a guy thinking aobut you like that? Of course not. I know that basically every guy masterbates, and if they have a girlfriend, probably to her.
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Vin diesel? Yuck! Manwhore! But to each their own I suppose. About the main question, Think about her and don't tell her or just masturbate and get on with it, I never really need to fantasize while i jerkoff.
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**I will pretend I never noticed you called him a manwhore.........and still like you LOL **
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I used to not like thinking about girls I know when I mastabate. Then I decided I was being silly and now a vast array of ex's find themselves in my sexual fanatasies while I toss
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"Everyone masturbates. Everyone. Even your girl."Nahh I am absolutely convinced their are girls who have never mastabated.
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why would you think that? teenage girls are just as horny as you guys are, and just as ready to experiment with their bodies, well i was anyway.
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Why do you presume all girls are the same? Certainly the majority of female mastabation that takes place is with the clitoras only and I think most girls have done that. But I've been on very open terms with enough girls to know it isnt universally true. I mean this girl rang up and told me right after she mastabated first time (ours was an odd friendship), she was 15 and she'd only done it cos her boyfriend had asked her to do so over the phone.
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I dont' presume, i just have read lots and lots of posts from young girls that they do thats all.
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And I'm sure lots and lots of young girls do...but not all.
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**You're right, and i never said they ALL did *sticks tongue out* ** :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
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but generally girls dont talk about masterbation as much wheras guys really do...so you probably just dont hear about is as much
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Well bugger me senseless!
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"but generally girls dont talk about masterbation as much wheras guys really do...so you probably just dont hear about is as much "Aye this is true...but I've always been quite good at being very close friends with girls to the extent that we do talk about that kinda stuff.