Does a female usually feel good when she has sex for the first time? or the times after that? The first time my girlfriend said it really hurt, so it didnt feel good. We tried again and it hurt at first, then after she said it felt neutral. It didn't feel good, but it didnt feel bad. Is this normal?
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Pleasure the first few times?
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it might hurt the first time for some girls, but it didnt for me. I think its normal though
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my first time was a little uncomfortable, but i was fine from then on out
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There is pain for most girls because the hymen is stretching and breaking, and there may be some blood too. It's not pleasant the first time, and the next few times won't be a festival either. I say give it 5 times to feel good.
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Yes, HelmsmaN, the hymen is a phenomena that makes the first few times (or more) a difficult and painful thing for most. Yet in some, the hymen may be not as prominent or not even there much anymore dependent on the girls activities. I have heard and experienced myself of women who said that their hymen was not an issue and chalked it up to things like bicycle riding, horseback riding, etc... In my experiences as an L & D nurse, I see women who still have a prominent hymenal ring as they give birth.Can you see the potential there for a large girth to cause a tear that would bleed even on someone who is not a virgin at all??K
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hmm it was uncomfortable the first couple of times to begin with, then it was fine, it depends from girl to girl, just give it time
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I thought sex sucked the first FEW YEARS. hahaha.... Things definitely get better with age and when you are truly in love with someone. I know that sounds cheesy but when you get older you'll understand.
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Feelings do have a lot to do with how enjoyable it is.. I've had boyfriends before but it never felt right going down that path with them. I guess I was saving myself for someone special.In my current boyfriend I found that special someone and we ended up making love. The first time it hurt some, yes, but it wasnt really 'that' bad. It only hurt until he'd penetrated all the way in that first time anyway, after that it started feeling good. What made it so magical for me though was the fact I'm completely in love with the guy so everything about it just felt so right.
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the first few times i had sex it hurt but at the same time it felt kind of good. i know that's confusing but if you experience it then you should understand. it wasn't a completely painful experience, but it wasn't the best either. everything gets better with time.
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Aye, Its normal. I was with a virgin once (very sweet girl) and i made things as comfortable as absolutely possible for her. After the first two or so times she got used to it, and turned out to be a real animal in bed.