ok so here's the deal...i'm moving back to the states in two weeks my dad is pissed cuz he thinks i'm stabing him in the back after we moved to the netherlands. but he knows i've always wanted to go back. now he's just not talking to me and if he does he tells me how terribley wrong and bad it will go for me there like not finding a job and healht insurance and that i won't be doing what i'm "supposed" to be doing. i mean i've already found a job there and stuff but i just wish he could be more supportive like my mom, and not my grandmother. she did the same to him when we moved here 2 years ago but....that's a different story. well thanks for listening and advise on what to do will be greatly appriciated thanks
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Family fued
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What does your father think you're "'supposed' to be doing"? Are you planning to go to college? If so, you can usually get health coverage through the university. Otherwise, you'll be working for Starbucks or Costco, because not many other places will offer a person without a college degree any kind of decent benefits.
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ya i'm going to go to a computer graphics school(if i can) and well you won't like this answer steve:P he wants me to keep going to church and stuff....he just likes to put people on guilt trips.
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You gotta do what you gotta do. If you don't go off and do it, you will kick yourself for the rest of your life. Your father can't live his life through you.Anyway, there are more churches in the U.S. than in the Neterhlands, and far more fundamentalist. How can you convert people who are all blissed out on marijuana and socialism, anyway?
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lol ya that's what i thought:D personally i think it's great getting out on my own and doing my own thing but at the same time you still kinda wanna please your parents...but oh well can't have it all thanks for the help man.