Seems like today everybody going out to parties having a nice time. I really dislike the society today how all these teens at young ages are already getting smashed at 13 and smoking pot. Im not kidding, the grade 8s at our school are already acting like their adults. I just hate it, everytime i go down the halls i hear parties being planned, "lets get drunk" or "lastnight was so fun"! Seems like back in the days when your 13 you'd only be thinking of playing outside with bikes or whatnot. Nowdays, people are getting concered if they get pussy. Im sick of everything. Fine, maybe im just jealous how everyone is having a great time while im here NEVER ever invited to ANY GIRL's house before nor any parties. The main reason would maybe im guessing be because im 16years old already and only a 5'2 guy! Yeah I for years have been putting my hopes up real high... that id be super tall but now im 16 and only 5'2. Girls are heads taller than me!! Yall probably say height isnt as important, 'personality' counts the most... so far thats been Bullsh!T!!! Ive played all my cards right, been nice to everyone, joked around and tried my best to help others. Yet, no girls has invited me to do anything! While my tall friend who bascially likes to insult other people and a total jock gets everything! Explain that please.I like to think of the future a lot. Think if ill ever get a wife id like. Im planning on going to college after highschool and by the time Im there, there will probably be close to NO girls shorter or the same height as I. I would like girls NO taller than me, but I can see that thats going to be hard to find now.Now I know ive probably talked about this before but I still want people to be aware of people like me who are suffering. Yes I might of posted a similar topic like this half a year ago but you might not have felt my pain or know how it feels but it does scar me. So, please treat everyone with respect no matter who they are cause their are some people who take it suriously.
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Teenage life
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Yet, no girls has invited me to do anything!Doesn't it usually work the other way, or am I old fashioned?I've seen lots of couples, where both were about the same height. I dated someone who was an inch taller than me. It wasn't an issue. If the average woman is about 5'5" or less, I'd expect that there would be a lot of women who are close to your height.
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it will suck until you realize it is not so bad.
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Holy crap...Kids aren't supposed to get drunk...I'm older than them and I've barely touched a wine bottle!
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ha got ya beat:P i've never touched one:) lol oh and i've never touched beer either for that fact:S
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it will suck until you realize it is not so bad. yeh sounds annoying, but school is a pain in generali dont know when i starting going out drinking, maybe when i was 15/16, but its different here in the uk i guess compared to america
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In reply to: the grade 8s at our school are already acting like their adults. i'd hope that most adults don't act like that.
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im 15 and also 5"2 it does bother me being short but i ilways tell me self ill grow soon.this past year puberty has hit me alot so i expect to grow.the only thing is i do get invited to parties
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How does your height get you invited to parties?
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Let me see if I can help you out on this issue, my friend. Im 6ft tall, in grade 12 at a reasonably large high school (about 500 kids). And I will tell you (you guessed it) that you're hight has NOTHING to do with your popularity or status with girls AT ALL. Now, maybe the grade 8s at ur school are getting hammered every weekend (which is not a good thing, I agree... I didn't start until high school, and I still never drink more than a mickey of hard alcohol when I go partying (I'm not the widest of people -- drink in moderation, it's lots more fun ). I know a kid, who, no kidding, is 4ft10in (srry, I dont kno the abbreviations for ft and inches, I'm canadian), and gets along with girls and parties just fine. To me, that's enough evidence on the hight thing -- it's all about the way you can bring yourself across to girls. Now, enough of my bickering, I'll try to give you what advice I can on solving your issues.#1. What are your friends like?Do you have close friends who go partying lots, and get lots of girls? If your friends go partying - this is a big one - ASK THEM TO CALL YOU, NEXT TIME THEY'RE GOING OUT! Where I'm from, you get your driver's when you're 16, so if that's the case where you're from, you shouldn't have a problem, most people won't have a problem driving you, if you ask nice and it isn't too far out of their way. If you have a good friend you feel you can fess up to, they can probably show you around the screwey roads of "the so-called world of parties". Be warned... only show yourself having fun if you're wasted out of your mind anyway, or everybody else is having fun too... some parties can be just plain boring, and you may be laughed at .###---###And remember, no matter what anybody says or does, NEVER, EVER, EVER!!! DRIVE DRUNK, OR GET IN A VEHICLE WITH A DRUNK DRIVER - E_V_E_R. I CAN NOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH!###---###2.The Girlfriend Department.Ah, the loneliness syndrome. In this case, I would like to point you in the direction of a personage by the name of David Deangelo, the author of the books on the site www.doubleyourdating.com. They are not free, but he does have a free newsletter, that seems to fly out spontaniously a few days a week (or sometimes none a week, he seems to have no schedule - note that half of them turn into advertisements for his books and whatnot, but if you read them carefully, you can glean quite a bit of insight out of them (like as to why your cocky friend does well with the ladies ). Also poke around on the net for any articles he may have written - they're much more direct, and all very good.3. GroomingBeing a jock doesn't necessarily means you get all the girls. It means Hollywood is poking a finger in your eye. My best advice is:a) Brush your teeth properly (go to your dentist, and ask how, very nicely), twice each day (morning and night) without fail.b) Wear deoderant that smells decent (axe smells a bit odd)c) Cut your hair. Long-haired guys have no problems getting girls these days, but short hair can still work wonders (it looks cleaner).d) Shave regularly if you have to. I was the second youngest person I know to ever get facial hair (I could grow a meagre beard in grade 7 - a friend was shaving when he was in grade 3, but I consider him to be an exception ).4. SleepGet lots of it . It will keep you up-beat, and your mind sharp - which you'll need for the ladies. I hope this helps. Just so you know, I might be 6ft tall... but I weigh 120 lbs, and the only sports I "play", are track and cross-country. If you need any more advice, I'll try to help you out as I can . That's only a tip of an iceberg - some random helpful info I pulled outta my hat, its 1:00 in the morning, and I'm ready for bed.
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there's a girl I know who's 4'11 and she's hispanic and gets all the guys. but then again hispanics are hott height doesn't matter.
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I have to agree, hispanic boys are super HOTTTT !!!
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NYyankeeboi are you gay? I love the smell of axe!!! I love it when my feonce wears it.
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duh, what tipped you off the sig or the posts?
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I never read peoples sigs... :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
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I haven em turned off, but i turn em on too see if anyone has changed theirs
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I changed mine... then changed it back with a slight modification...
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No I am not gay ! Never, just my sig line is..LMAO
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speaking of sigs mazkats is pretty fucking cool
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why thankyou your the second to say that today, lol- its by this graffiti artist called 'banksy' if your interested
