And today she did the same.Me and this girl we'll call Alison have known each other at work for over two years, and the first time I had a real chance to be with her I turned her down to be with someone else (which didn't end up going anywhere at all). Even though I rejected her we continued to talk and be friends.Since moving away to univ she's been a little distant with me, but to me it's been apparent that there's still some unresolved business. (And i'm pretty damn sure i'm not alone)Anyways, today she was home from reading week and i went over to her house (it was actually pretty funny, i missed the bus so i ran over 2 miles in the snow to get there). We were watching a movie on the couch and i told her i wanted to get us figured out, and she was just realy dismissive. "Let's not make this awkward, we're just friends". Amazingly, the rest of our time together was not awkward -- just good friends time.As an added variable she has a bf at her univ, so I would imagine she'd be reluctant to admit (to herself anyways) that she wanted to be with me. And he's able to (and does) see her every day (whereas I am not) and is probably much better "bf material" right now.However, there was something dismissive about the way she friends'ed me today that just isn't sitting right. I really don't believe she feels this way, and if i bring it up again it's just going to be awkward. So, i probably won't until she breaks up with her bf.anyways, just wanted to vent. i know i'll keep talking to her... i just don't think i'm ready to "cut my losses".
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I just friends'ed her a year ago...
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She wanted you and you turned her down for someone else, so she has moved onto to someone else herself, but now that you're single you want to see if the option is still open. Well I'm afraid it doesn't really work that way. You had your chance, you blew her off, so let her be with someone who gave her the time of day the first time around.
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nods headi agree
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oh my, she put the nail in the coffin tonight. and well... it might be more appropriate to describe it as a crufixion than a typical funeral, so it would be fair to say the nails were hammered directly into my wrists and feet.
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intriguedWhat did she do?
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agreed.
