Ok, this may be the wrong place to post it but I didnt really see anything else that fit. I have an 11 year old step daughter, well soon to be step daughter. According to what she has told me, me mother, her mother and what her dads ex wife (not my future wife but the one he left her for now also divorced from) this girl is beaten with a belt regularly, told shes not wanted and that the only reason he has her is so her mother cant.I just built up a large bill with my attorney getting custody of my children and cant yet afford a new trial to get her.Does anyone know of any way to go about this?My current plan is to kidnap her one day and goto the police, fill out the proper forms to get a protective order and restraining order against her father in her name.Id do that on a weekend when she was here but since she told on her dad he has cut all visitation off with her mother.There is two other kids there as well, but they want to be there and have tol us the same stuff about her being beaten and howbad shes treated.Any ideas on how I can go about getting her out of there? legal manuvers! Im not up for a straight kidnapping and living on the run for ever.My kids wanted to be with me and it required a 1 1/2 year court battle to get them and about 17 thousand dollars. Im still paying that bill and cant afford another one on top of it just yet.
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How did that guy wind up with primary custody? He just decided he's going to cut off the visitation rights of her mother?This is not rocket science. If you kidnap her, you can kiss goodbye any hope of ever getting legal custody of her. If she's being beaten, you need to contatct the police, and whatever the equivalent of Child Protective Services is in your state.Even if you had plenty of money for lawyers, you couldn't leave here to be beaten while the case dragged through court.
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he got primary custody because he had the money to fight, and she had a free legal aid lawyer and worked at apollo burger. Money talks. Its a long story that I dont have all the details of her past.I have a great many of her details and she treats my kids better then their real mmo does, They have told me many times they wish she was the real mom instead of what they got born to.off subject........back to it....When I spoke of kidnapping, I meant gra her from home (she is home alot for part of the day before anyone else gets home)take her to the police station to fill out forms, give testimony and attempt to a protective order for her against her dad.i googled the voices for children in Utah, not alot of help there, least not here in utah, its mostly childrens issues and legislation reports about health care.I know she needs to be out of there, I know she wants to be.Im jsut trying ot ind the quikest, most effective way and lowest risk way (lowest risk being the one that gets me into the least amount of legal trouble in the end, what her dad thinks of it and how much trouble me and her mother is in with him interests me very little). I thought wiht the testimony of hes second ex and the fact shes told this to my mom was good.If I could talk to her Id talk to her about going to a school couselor.at any rate any other ideas on how to facilitate this the fastest are greatly appreciated.Im trying to do it 100% legally, but I also know that what needs to be done is me go beat the dog shit out of the bastard who fatherd the girl that has asked e if she can call e dad.I have no tolerance for bastards that abuse kids mentally or physically and he does both.
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I havent given up on them, just a matter of follwoing the right links to find what Im after.
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Girl is beaten badly , then contacting the police is the best idea and then leave everything on them. Hire a Child Custody Lawyer and then bring them to the court let them know what will be the result to beat the girl so badly.
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@Anne-Saxton Welcome to A2A. Thanks for the great advice. You're correct. I believe that the child safety should be a priority. I don't remember how this exactly played out as it was originally posted over 10 years ago. I want to say everything worked out well for Chance (GrvtyKllr) He hasn't been on the site in about 9-19 years...
Moving forward, May I suggest looking to the bottom right corner of the post and see how old the posts are? You may not get any responses or replies when posting to these older threads. Have fun here and please continue to help our readers with their child Custody questions...
