okay so i know that some women dont have orgasms because of actually im not sure what but theres ways to help you have one when you masturbate by doing these certain exercises. but see the problem is not only that i cant orgasm but when i finger myself i dont feel any pleasure at all. and i dont know why... yes i do use my imaginiation and ive tried things like rubbing my clit and all sorts of different techniques i just dont know why i dont get any pleasure out of it. maybe im doing something wrong. could somebody who knows what their talking about maybe help me? any help is greatly appreciated :smile: thanks.
Need some help....
you could try rubbing ur clit and fingering at the same time, or try breast stimulation. toys?
well you need to be turned on, lol as simple as it sounds, you cant just start rubbing on your clit, maybe wait untill your wet down there first and then start fingering yourself. also if its your thing start touching your breasts first, playing with your nipple etc, some women are more sensitive than others but that can feel pretty good and always gets me turned on to begin with
also, how old are you?
im almost 17. but yea ill try some of those things i suppose and see where i get to. but thanks for the replies so far i really appreciate it. ill tell ya when i make some progress lol.
I'm 17 male. so i probably don't have any buisness posting in this topic.
But a girl i was with not very long ago, your age had the very same problem. She never had the urge to masterbate, and when she tried it did nothing for her.
Long story short, in the end it was all in her head.
This is a bit of a strange question but have you had someone else ie a boyfriend try fingering you?
Once you know how it should feel it will be alot easier to do it alone.
A pill to make you numb. A pill to make you dumb.
A pill to make you anybody else.
heya mayb try toys? or an electric tothbrush always does the trick for me. and as he^^says havin some1 else do it is alot better
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