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teenages (who im assuming you are ranting on about, im assuming) arent fit to be parents.
I believe that post was made by CaughtMyFancy and I'm here to tell you you're wrong. I don't know if you meant as whole or not but my mother was a parent at the age of 15 and I'm the oldest child. So she had me when she was 15. She had all of her children by the time she was 19. She finished high school, went to college FULL TIME to be a nurse (her GPA NEVER dropped below a 3.5), had two FULL TIME jobs (yeah that would be almost 70+ hours a week), took care of three kids and her husband (and my parents are STILL married...22 years) and our house was NEVER a mess. My parents have worked their asses off. And they were kids when they got married (my mom was 15 and my dad was 22). So you can't speak for all teenagers or kids who have kids.
As for abortion, I'm pro-life. I believe you made your choice when you decided to have sex meaning that it's like a contract. By having sex you agree to take on all the responsibilities and/or consequences that come a long with that. What about rape you ask? I was a victim of rape. And while I think under circumstances like that it SHOULD be left up to the woman, I couldn't do it. I look at it this way: This man raped me, the baby didn't. It should at least be given a chance to live. And while I would suggest adoption, again, I couldn't do it because that baby has parts of me too. And babies don't have to be born to be alive. They're alive inside you. I was with my cousin one day when she had an ultrasound. I could see the head, hands, feet and eyes. I got to hear the heart beat. And she moved (yep, it's a girl....Miranda Faye...middle name is after my grandma). She moved her arms and legs. So it is a living thing. I consider abortion murder. But the thing is....even though I'm pro-life....I cannot choose for any woman what she does with her body even though I don't believe it's JUST their body anymore when they become pregnant. It IS theirs...however...it's someone else's too for 9 months...or at least it should be. And in a perfect world their wouldn't be any abortions however, I have to respect that some these women who do have abortions do not make that decision easily. Some women agonize over it. But there are women out there who use it only as a form of birth control and those same women have abortions because it makes it easy for them to disregard responsibility and I think that's wrong.