Individualism

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No one here has an ounce of it. Sure we listen to different music and such, but over 80% of the time everyone just agrees with everyone else. I hate you guys so much, how is everyone so dumb. Look people flirt on here, make fun of each other, proove points, and do kid games. These forums are crap now, how about more people help. Shit I mean I needed some help when I posted when I wanted to know what I could do to improve my life, and 6 people responded. But it is not only for me. I am calling everyone of you out because right now you are nothing more than a bunch of losers to afraid to answer. You guys disgust me.

Then fucking leave and never come back. We dont want you here. If you hate it so much, stop being an idiot with stupid posts like this and LEAVE. moron

I'm normally a very nice person to people here, but shut up! You don't speak for every person on this board so don't go around spouting things like "we don't want you here" and all that other crap, he has every right to post his views and opinions. Walken does have a point, lately this site has been nothing but a big bitch fest, everyone trying to pick each other apart. I'm not saying I don't argue, I know I do (and I love to do it), but I try not to. There are plenty of great people here, people who give amazing advice and they're one of the reasons I love this site so much.

well for some reason a lot of my posts for help, just go un-noticed. I mean if people are afraid to ask, they better go somewhere else.

I agree with Katie so not going to repeat it all LoL.But Walkena t the smae point you cannot class us all as "dumb" or not having individualism. I think the problem people have here is that fact we cannot extress out individualism because we get bashed. I know I have tried many times and always ended up in a large debate where I was classed as "child like" and my education being questioned. I think what people really need to accept on these boards is that everyone does not think alike and people are oging to have different ideas or opinions and they should be respected. Not saying people need to believe in the idea, but reguardless it should be respected.

Ill tell ya this, Iv seen all your posts, well not all but a majority of those in the last month or atleast the ones that get posted on week days or are still activly being viewed and replied to on weekdays and I have no clue how to answer them.Alot of them I can relate to but its because I have or am still experienceing the same thing. If I cant figure it out for me I cant tell someone else how to figure it out either.If I cant think of something to say or to help or something that doesnt add to a discussion then I figure Im better off to close that window and move to another topic then offer assinine advice that I dont know tohave worked for anyone and further screw someone up that is already dealing wiht some shit.post something I have soe type of reply to and if I look stupid or not Ill reply to it. Alot of your posts however seem to be deeply personal and no clear answers. Some relect the same shit going on in my life and I havent figured it out yet so I can tell you how to do the same. I can maybe get ya more lost? Or maybe I should start replying to them and something in my own experience might click shit in your head for you and you can figure it out for both of us.

No offense Sexpot, but you did the same exact thing....how many times have we heard about the llama?(This is not directed to sexpot) Walken has a point, but FaBMX also has a point. This isn't high school for god sake. Anytime, anyone, discusses religion or political issues, people are going to argue. Don't read the fucking thread if it bothers you. If you don't want to argue with someone...ignore them. How difficult is this?As for the highjacking, generally the original question does get answered and then the off-topic stuff starts. Whether it's right or wrong the question gets answered. And I think the flirty highjacking has gotten better. To Walken (not trying to sound mean) this is exactly what I was trying to tell you about not responding to your posts. You turn mean if you don't agree with someone. You come out here saying you hate us all and expect people to give you advice? This is not the first time you flipped out and that is exactly why people are slow to respond to you.

No I expect no advice now. I gave up last week. I only stay to now and then help, and pass the time when i get really bored. This is just a vent of frustration towards all of you. Ntro, you are afraid to express yourself b/c of what people will say. Well fuck them, do it. DLISH, I think I am mean on her because I am never mean when in my daily life. It is hard to take hits and shots all day and not do anything about it. And a few people on here remind me of the scum suckers I deal with all day, and well they get the brunt of my frustration. I do all I can for those around me when they need me, and would do it for anyone on this board, but I am unsure of how far some will go.And when i said all of you, that is me being to damn lazy to type of who it was, so i find it easier...

As Chance said, a lot of you quesitons are very individual ("Here are a few details about my life. How do I fix it?"). You should be happy when you get six repsponses. How many would you expect in order for you not to think that everyone sucks?Your issues seem to go in cycles. You've gotten a lot of responses over the months that I've been here. When the same issue comes up again, what more can people say? It appears that you're not getting the help you need here. You have to understand that (as far as I know) there are no professionals here, and people answer questions out of the goodness of their hearts, or egos. I think you would benefit a lot, lot more by in-person counseling.One problem is that we have to take everything you say at face value, including your interpretations. We can't read your body language, we don't know that much about the people in your lives, we can't easily drill down in specific areas. We can only do so much on a message board.Around your birthday you mentioned that there was a woman you worked with, who seemed to like you, and the next day she was as cold as ice. If you want my advice, you should disect that episode.

I think she was making the point that some people criticize others for things that they themselves do.

I didn't bring up that last point as a slam. It seems to me that there's a socialization issue (in that people sometimes react to you in ways that baffles you). You need to get to the bottom of it, or you have a lot of years of frustration and unhappiness in front of you. The answer is not that everyone else is a jerk.You can get only so much help on a forum. If you have a specific mechanical problem, like you're constipated, or you want to build up certain muscles, those issues are easy to address. If you have more complex issues, it's not so easy. That's why professionals exist.

Well um... I'm sorry if I've been that way towards you. I agree with kristal on the two points she pointed out. I sometimes am not sure what to post because of the reactions that I get. Being cursed out for no reason will make someone that way. Sometimes it gets a little rough when you have older people on your case about what and what not to say. I get enough of that from my parents and teachers. So, I'll try and help you out more. Once again, sorry if I came across in a wrong way.

You shut up or I will kick you in your head and rape your dog.

Everyone basicly comes on here to bitch. Every single post I see starts out with a question, then by the third response everyone is talking about some completly differn't thing, usually a complaint.

I think we should erase everything and ban Katie whatever the fuck her name is.

Knock it off.

Knock what off? She was being a bitch.

And what were you being with your post to Walken?

I was stating what he wanted to hear. He wants to bitch about how everything isn't good anymore and blah blah. Simple solution. STOP COMING HERE

Ok woot, you post this rant about how everyone argues, picks apart other's posts, and doesn't help...but all you created was ANOTHER ranting, bitching, slam-everyone thread. It's like trying to kill fire, by setting fire to it.

sorry, I was just venting some other frustrations and frustration from this board. I find that it is good that this is a place to vent b/c it is healthy to let it all out instead of bottling up. FaBMX, I know you are sick of people acting and being predictable, but if we change are you going to? Because all our efforts will equal zilch if we change and one person brings back to this way. Just chill, let people vent and get off of KatieLou, of all the people she is probably the sweetest.

In reply to: No one here has an ounce of it. Sure we listen to different music and such, but over 80% of the time everyone just agrees with everyone else. I hate you guys so much, how is everyone so dumb. Look people flirt on here, make fun of each other, proove points, and do kid games. These forums are crap now, how about more people help. Shit I mean I needed some help when I posted when I wanted to know what I could do to improve my life, and 6 people responded. But it is not only for me. I am calling everyone of you out because right now you are nothing more than a bunch of losers to afraid to answer. You guys disgust me. sweetness i'm glad we can do something for ya! even if its disgust you... for someone with an excellent realization of the real world. you should have realized individualism is over-rated. and as for being dumb. in your head everyone is whatever you percieve them as. so whenever your done throwing your tantrum, because the people on a2a aren't responding the way you want them to, and are ready to come back and post somemore of your witty, humorous remarks then we'll be here being "dumb"...