Where do I ask him to go?

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Heyyaz! I'm a 14 yr old girl...well I was having a little trouble desciding where to ask a guy out. My ideas are so pathetic (today I asked the guy I liked -14 as well- if he wanted to go for a walk and we did...I know it was sad but really fun) Well I want to ask him out on a date but I have no idea where to go...I don't really want to go to a movie date, because it would just be us sitting around for liek 2 hours in a dark room...I want a more social date, one where I would talk to him...But I'm fresh out of ideas...so any help would be very much appericated

well seeing as you're only 14 and don't have cars to get around that well, i think walks are a great way to have fun and to get to know eachother. besides you're too young to be "serious" dating anyways. so just do what the both of you have fun doing. if it makes you smile and laugh it's a good date.now a fun date i think would to go bowling, golfing, boating, swimming, atv's (if allowed for you), um ice bloking could be fun:P just be creative i'm sure you'll find something that the both of you would like to do.

Ask him out for something to eat, say lunch which is small and theres no pressure in it. and it's a normal thing to do.

First of all, that you took the initiative to ask the guy out is way cool. And I agree with you about movies...you can't talk. Plus after a movie, if the film was very intense, you can get zombied-out afterwards.

Anything active or outdoors would be great. Co-ed sports are great.

ok thanks guys, we both like swimming so i might see if he wants to swim at the pool at our school...as for walks, he said that it wasnt long and we should go on a longer one next time :grin:

How about going for a bike ride and a picnic afterwards?

ask him to a movie and when the previews start just start fondoling with his willy and shove your tounge down his throught.

First off it is way cool to ask him out instead of making him do it all the time. Second off if you do what qazqaz says, ill bet he definatly asks you out for a second date, and after school the next day youll be the most sought after girl in the entire school!

she's 14!

Have your folks drop you guys at the mall. Meet up with some friends and grab some lunch. The mall is a cool place to run around and act crazy. You can also get some pretty cool ideas as to what he wants for Christmas....

Wouldn't she want to be alone, to get to know each other? DO you Hotbuns? I always thought the mall was a last resort place, it's not romantic in any way and there's really not that much to do, but go from store to store.

hey try not to be so traditional man....i think it's awsome when a girl desides where to go and to plan the date, it's a nice change of pace for a while(maybe i'm just too useds to my sisters planning dates i duuno) but the fact of a girl wanting to ask the guy out it would just be a turn on for me. besides if the girl planned it she's more likely to have fun on the date anyways and, the guy doesn't have to be worried the whole time. is she liking this date? will we go out again? i think this will let both of them relax and have more fun together.

Hey guys I'm only 14!! well almost 15 but anyways..I'm in it for sex! lol I'm not into that. Yea well a whole bunch of my frineds are going to a late movie and I asked if he wanted to go and hes gunna go! I guess my non movie thing didn't work, but he seems happy to be going. I'll tell what happens lol

Hey JenJen.... It's different here in the states...Just kidding ...lolWell, I'm lad it worked out for her. See I've found out that kids have a much better time when they hang out with a bunch of friends. At least until they start getting older. At 14 kids tend to find comfort when hanging out in a pack. They can still sit next to each other and hold hand, but don't need to pressure of dating one on one.....Oh.. Let's all wish them a good times...Have fun Hot buns!

no i don't think i miss understood you sry. because how can you miss understand "you need to be a girl and, let the guy ask you out" and as for she just wants to get laid who cares if that's what she's really doing it for? but that's unlikely. since she is 14. it's just a crush that she's just trying to work out right now i never gave advice for her to get laid.>Please think things out before putting in your rather useless input. You obviously just jump to conclusions and don't analyze what people are trying to say in any way.You have misunderstood what I was trying to say for the 2nd time tonight, and I don't think it's coming from my part of the posting.<and i do anylize what they say and what i type very carefully before i post. and i'm just telling her from my personal experiences what's worked for me. i don't think she should be taking dating advice from some guy that's just reasently had two gf's sry but it's the truth(sry i'm not trying to be rude right now but some people just get to me.) i totally agree with you roc. it's definately easier to relax with a group. you're not put one on one.

I think you need to be a girl, and let the guy ask you out.Let us know when you catch up to the 1970's. You are an anachronism.Roc> See I've found out that kids have a much better time when they hang out with a bunch of friends.That's pretty much how kids "date" nowadays, at least in the U.S.: in groups.

Movies are ok, cause ya can still hang out before and after, and it will give you something to start a conversation. Or you can just start kissing during the movie, but then you miss most of it and then conversation is out the window....

By classy, you mean stuck up, full of themselves, pampered? What if one of your so called hot, classy girls fancy the ass of some shy guy, and he would never have the courage to ask her out. It just wouldn't happen? Of course, you might think that any guy who isn't brave enough to ask a girl out doesn't deserve one of the good ones, but any girl that sits around waiting for guys to ask them out is no better than guys who are afraid to ask the girls.

So you think that a girl who tries to sell herself based on skimpy outfits and good looks is a good thing but a girl who is interested in a particular guy (rather than whoever is willing to ask them out) is being cheap by asking them out. That doesn't make any sense. Trying to get attention and be asked out with no particular focus on a certain person sounds like someone being either desperate or stuck up. I'd love it if a girl showed that she liked me rather than just waiting for me to randomly ask her out.

They are turning into guys, trying to get sex whenever they want it, but they still have the advantage of being able to seduce and manipulate with their bodies. Not to mention that the sex laws are all in their favour. But I swear, I'm not sexist!