Hey! I have a question for all of you here, because I think most of you had these feelings before and should have something to say about it. The issue I would like to discuss here is about being overprotective and jealous in case of guys. I myself get very mad when I see other guys (usually the ones I know myself or at a party) hitting on my g/f and its not really because I am afraid that they are going to take her from me or something, but mostly because I just don't like it. Sometimes, she herself acts kind of weird, playing around with them and stuff (not in a bad way) which also pisses me off. Whenever I see this happening I feel like killing the fuckers lol and when I tell her how I feel she says that I am being overprotective and should not be worried about things like that because she loves me. Well, my question to you GIRLS (guys should say something about their experinces too) is this: If you had a b/f that you loved (or if you do), how would you like him to act in these situations? (honestly) Should I stop looking at these little things being so protective or is it alright? I mean its not like I get pissed for every little thing but sometimes it makes me mad. It might sound like I am being insecure and stuff, but its not really that because I do trust my g/f at this point. So what do you guys think?
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Overprotection and being jealous
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I think the best thing to do, is make your presence known (ie let these guys know she's yours) but don't jump all over them. Being overprotective and jealous is a bad thing, so try to cut down on that. If you truly love each other, then there should be trust too, and if there's trust, there's very little to worry about. Watch out for her in case some jerk wont leave her alone when she clearly wants him to, and shoo him off, but otherwise, just let her make friends. If she loves you, she wont do anything bad.
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u trust her right !!! and u know tht she loves u surely tht tells u tht u can trust her as long as she knows u feel the same ... on the jealousy thing it is hard to see her playing around but she comes back to you in the end right !!! and also protecting her is good but dnt smoother her !! if she loves u and u love her thn surely u know she is ther!
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in my experience, girls seem to really get off knowing that guys are interested in them. just make sure she knows where to draw the line.
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be careful how u class girls!!and yeh some girls do enjoy the attention you give thm!!
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don't let her get drunk while not in your presence... only precaution