I think the moment a person entertains the idea of cheating is the moment they prove to themselves and/or their partner that there is something wrong with the relationship. I don't judge people that cheat because I do not know all the reasons behind it, but I will admit that I do not understand why someone would do it before the relationship is completly over (no, I'm not taking a jab at you, I'm just stating my own confussion from my personal experience). I guess I'll never fully understand it.
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Cheating...
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i'm 18 and have had a gf for about most of my highschool yrs(now graduated yay) and well i was pretty serious but she obviously wasn't but hey the single life is nice too
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Amz> It is quite common for people to cheat when they are younger, but I think once people get older most of them do feel the need to settle down, and have had enough experience to be happy with what they have.
I'm afraid that's closer to the ideal than the reality. It doesn't mean that everyone cheats...but an awful lot of people do.
I know, Steve... I just like to try and see the brighter side of things sometimes :grin:
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I guess its just that I hear so much about it, like its something that everyone does. My co-workers do it...Everywhere you look its a sob story about how someone got cheated on. Found out that early in my dad's relationship he had two girlfriends, my mom and some other lady. Eventually went with my mom. Did the same thing with his new girlfriend. Maybe its just I have a couple experiences that make me think the whole world is like this. Who knows.
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I was cheated on by my recent girlfriend... let me tell you it sucks ass she was the first non family person i cried in front of.. but see i cheated on her first and thats why i gave her a second chance because she gave me one... I cheated on her because i had heard she cheated on me and got mad one night got drunk and a girl took advantage of me i guess you could say, turned out she didnt cheat on me then i told her what i had done and we went for about two weeks and she was still mad then got drunk and did some shit with a guy, and the guy was a friend of mine, i beat the living shit out of him.
My point is i could never cheat on someone again knowing how i felt when it happened to me, nothing good comes out of cheating, if you want to do stuff with someone else why not just break up with them??
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No, it's not right to cheat on someone. But if you guys aren't exclusive then I'm not sure if shes actally cheating.
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It's like this she's either commited or not. Look up the word commited. one can't be half way.
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it doesn't really matter how long you are with someone if they want to cheat they will, i have been cheated on and I was with him for ten years before he did that. we were not in a good posistion at the time but it still didn't matter. I have always said to him that I don't care how bad things are communication is the key and he did not tell em how he was feeling and then cheated followed by four years of major games. I could never cheat on some one and I have had the opportunity to do so since. Be cheated on is one of the worst things taht some one else could do to some one that they "love". It changes the way you feel and the way that you trust anyone let alone some one else coming into your life. I am not even 27 yet and I am shocked at the little amount of trust that I have in men now. but I have been through a lot of issues with the guy that cheated on me and all of it made me a stronger person but I am a less trsting one at the same time. everytime something happens it happens for a reason right. always evaluate if you want to be that type of person or it you are better off without them.