GIRLS-how would i make u fall in love with me?

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how would i make a girl fall in love wiht me? (background info-i'm ugly and i'm chinese (turn off))

how about you dont make useless threads instead of searching for other ones on here. This topic has been done a hundred times over.

Hey quit posting this nonsense crap 3 times over just rephrased in different way. Ask your question once and wait for an answer. Gosh you spammer!

First off, you're not ugly. Stop saying that to yourself. Just like guys don't like girls with low self-esteem, girls don't like guys with low self-esteem. And stop saying chinese people are ugly. That's just wrong. Even though I like Japan mostly, I've seen alot of Chinese guys that were really good-looking, most better than the Japanese guys I've seen. And I bet you're not so bad yourself. The Chinese guys that I became "close friends" with were funny, smart, and really sweet. All you need is a good personality anyway. So cheer up. And you're only 14. Like me. Don't feel so pressured to be in a relationship. It's not that big of a deal. I just happened to meet a really nice guy. So take your time.

you can't make someone fall in love with you

that's what makes love well...love. it's unpredictable. if love were predictable and totally controlable then it would lose all of it's power that it has.

I totally agree with that. Now to our fine poster, if we knew how to make ourselves love someone or make someone else love us, don't you think we would? I agree whole heartedly with gundam. Love is unpredictable and that's what makes it so great and also so mysterious. If it were as easy as saying, "Hey you! You are going to fall in love with me!" Some of us would've done it a long time ago.Your best bet...try starting off as friends. The mere exposure effect states that people tend to prefer the famliiar so if there is someone that you like, try being around them - A LOT. Not to the point of annoyance but be around them. Befriend them. Be there for them. Be a familiar face to the person you like. It's not fool proof but it's a place to start.

Iv skipped back and forth through this and the other three posts of hte same question over and over. Iv made a decision based on this and that is that your asking the wrong question.the right question for you to ask is "What can I do about my low self esteem and absense of any self worth?"As long as your a whiney self loathing person, how can you ever expect anyone to love or care about you when you dont care about yourself?Im sure your family cares about you but they know you. Noone is attracted to a person who thinks that they are worthless.Go read the other threads onhere that are about the same things. Its a matter of confidence to get anyon interested so that they can get to know you. You cnat have any confidence in your self unless you figure out why your so down on yourself and change that.

Its easy to make girls fall in love with you.

sex godess, love has to be unexpected and not forced. Sometimes when you try to hard it backfires. Just be yourself and be patient. Open yourself up to new places to meet new people. I'm a fitness instructor at a fitness center and I find that's a good place to meet new people. (That's where I met my boyfriend :smile:) Think of something you like to do and think of a place around you that you can get yourself involved in. I know easier said than done. I hope you find your love one day!

Don't present a fake version of yourself. Be who you are. If you don't like who you are, it may be time to try to change some things, compromise with yourself, and settle with what you can't change. Find happiness in yourself. This in itslef will radiate an attraction. Then, love will find you.

Love is fine. Love is blind. Love is easy to find. Is love easy? I really don't know...(Well, I'm a little bit drunk right now, but I think I replied correctly to your question)

wow i've matured alot since this post or i was high then, but i laughed at my post when i read it and it didn't seem like wut i'd post but thx 4 replying!!! ,;;;;,princess Leea (the starwars chick) @-_-@

purple wish bone- i feel ya, i thought the same thing after i got past my "phase"and lay off da sugar! you bout to bounce off da walls and shit