Hi guys I am new here. I am really depressed I just found out 2 months ago that my fiance's aunt has breast cancer. then yesterday I found out that my boss has lung cancer. also in that same day my fiance called to tell me that his aunts cancer has metastized to her organs. She is now a stage 4. I dont know what to do. I am a smoker and I want to quit but I am so depressed right now and stressed out that I dont think I will be able to do that right now. Anyone have advise? His aunt is only 50 and my boss is only 57
Cancer is spreading,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
And my co-workers sister has terminal lung cancer that has metastasized to other areas. She's only 42..
Quit NOW. (I can't help you with the "how" part)
I mean I have quit before and I did it for 2 years. But then crisis happened and then I just lost the momentum ya know? I am so close with my boss I love her to death she is a sweatheart. I miss her already. We still dont know what stage her cancer is. She used to smoke she quit 7 years ago. She went in for an MRI on her back a couple of weeks ago because she was complaining that her back was hurting. She found out then that she had a spot on her lung. She didnt tell anyone of us except my assistant manager. So then she had went to Vegas on vacation and when she came back Monday this past MOnday they called her at work and she found out it was cancer. Her arm went numb and she couldnt breathe so my asst manager called 911. Thats all I know for now. We havent heard from her just her daughters. They are still running tests to see if the arm spell was related or just stress.
Well I just found out that my boss's cancer is worse than we thought. She has a mass on her left lung and a few spots on the right and they are suspecting that it may spread to her other organs. We are just finding it so hard at work to concentrate. I just quit smoking today. I am on the Nicorette gum. Itll take a while but I had to do it. The whole office in fact has dropped the smoking habit. So as long as we can support each other should be ok ya know? Ill keep you all posted.