whats up, im 14 and me and my girlfriend kiss nonstop when were alone and I would really like to go farther. I hear stuff like to just really slowly go down her stomach to her pants and than i hear to ask her first, and than I heard that girls dont like it when guys ask. so I was just wondering what I should do... Thx! also she has felt my penis be4 and its about 6 inches and im 14, do you think that is normal size? thx!
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Question about goin farther
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Some girls may want the guy to do it but not want to give explicit spoken permission. I think going slowly to the area is the usual way to do it - if she pushes your hand away or says no that's a clear signal and you must stop. If she's felt your penis already, though, she's probably hoping you'll do something. Consider the breasts first, though.Six inches is a little over average adult size, so you're fine.
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"If she's felt your penis already, though, she's probably hoping you'll do something."Dont say that )= It reminds me of my ex who constantly tried to go down my pants....but I would stop her like Ive done other girls in the past. Its liek you said though...its pretty safe to conclude that a girl is interested sexually if shes doing that. I still dont want to admitt it though, because while I could have sex with this last one, and really wanted to, I didnt. It changed a lot of things and then with other some issues at hand...it just ruined things, because she was 2 years older and wasnt into a guy like me in terms of save my virginity. She said that she felt as though I was basically telling her that she wasnt good enough to have sex with me and it really made me feel guilty and sad. Sometimes, I question my decisions. Sigh sorry for going off on my tangent...it just really hit a nerve in my heart when you said that. If I keep this up, Ill be that 40 year old virgin in that 40 year old virgin movie that was released this summer. Only 17 years to go
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At least in my experience, I was a virgin and my boyfriend was not. He had made it clear beforehand that we'd only take a step further when I was ready for it. One night when we'd been cuddling eachother, just petting, kissing and teasing, I felt 'ready' and I told him so. I really did appreciate the fact that he left me make the first move though. It made it into a wonderful experience for me.
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At that age sex was more like a card game . She deals the cards and you have to figure when to bet. It's seemed easier to move slowly (breast outside shirt, bra strap, inside shirt, ass & inner thighs outside pants, then crouch and dry sex) so they could get comfortable with the whole thing at their pace. I really do miss those days."It's not the kill, but the thrill of the hunt"
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yeah if shes touched your dick;; then im sure she's interested. but i personally, wouldnt want a guy to ask me i would just want him to do it and if i wasnt comfortable i would just avoid it or give him a hint.