Hey all I'm in a bit of a embarrasing situation. You see when I'm being intimate with my girlfriend I can usually get her off fairly quickly (withen 5 usually). She knows she faster then like 90% of girls out there but I gotta say I wouldn't mind at all if it weren't for the following!When it's my turn to get something happening it takes me a tremendous amount of time for me to get off. typically a half hour or more. The girl has got a lot of heart, and bitchin arm muscles now. When i do it myself it still takes a fairly long time considering masterbation typically isn't an endurance sport... like 10 minutes or 15 minutes or so. WTF is wrong with me damnit?! I'm like 20 years old... this isn't supposed to happen now!!!funny how the guy who takes forever finds a woman who doesn't! we both laugh about it a lot... though it bugs me because I hate making her work so damned hard.
Whats wrong with me?
thats scary...side question though for anyone out there that knows....when do guy and girls start not being aroused as easily as they used to be?
I stopped being aroused easy when I was 16. I know this sint normal but I have put it down to stress which absolutely killed my libido and ability to actualy get a hard on for a few months some time back.
Hi 0611!! I appreciate how it's frustrating when 'things' don't work out just as we EXPECT them too... but really... what's wrong with having sex for 35 minutes or more?! Isn't it great just to BE with each other? Do you turn into a pumpkin if you take 'too long'?! I say.... relax and ENJOY what you have. So what she cums quickly. So what YOU don't. Big deal. Just tell her to keep alternating hands so her arm muscles even out!! Seriously - you are making a problem where one does not exist. But if it really bothers you - then why not jack yourself WHILE you're 'doing her'?! GREAT BIG HUGCraig!!
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