I am tired of parents being irresponsible! There are some great parents out there Many are on this forum, but im seeing more and more lately that just havent got a clue! One lady walked up to me in the mall today "I lost my kid have you seen him?" IN A MAJOR MALL! Im sorry but i dont see how a parent could do that! So, i say "What does he look like, how old is he?" "Uh, well, he has brownish, no sort of redish hair. hes about eh, 3 years old" I felt like screaming at her. So, I find the kid later and i couldnt find that dumb mom again. Poor kid was scared out of his wits, i found him hiding under a pay phone. I didnt wanna give him back to that lady.So, my question is, Why do obviously incapable people have kids and keep them?
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Irresponsible Parents.
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I wish parents like that would give up their kids.... then I could live with someone else
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i think the worst ones are those parents who just scream at thier children, especially in supermarkets, the kids crying and upset and the mother just goes mental and starts yelling at the poor kid and dragging him along..i just think, that cant be natural
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bad parents are the one thing in this world that makes me seeth.When i was working as a family support worker, i spent 2 hours 'supporting' a mother who, smokes a packet of cigarettes in the two hours i was there, and moaned about how hard done by she was that her kids were on an at risk register.............and all the time i knew her 1 and 2 year olds hadn't eaten since the day before................she would rather spend her money on smoking than feed her kids, I was FUMING and took the kids out to 'play' but instead took them to a restaurant and fed them..........and bought some bread and stuff to take back to the house............it broke my heart, and i lost my temper and ended up arguing with the so-called-mother, and she asked for another support worker then.I am too outspoken to do that job anymore, if i see something wrong i say it, but these parents just want people to sympathise with them and their 'children with behavioral problems/under achieving, when its the parents fault that their kids are like this.......
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Yeah some parents just aren't supposed to have children I guess.
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That's a good question! It's like natural selection gone wrong! I do think it's because of a lack of education. Irrisposible parents like that probably never graduated high school and work some sleazy job. The don't know about birth control, they're not educated about the right things and it all leads to stupid decisions. Then they try to blame others for their misfortunes, when it's their fault all along.
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when it's their fault all along. i agree with you except that its not neccesarily their fault, for some people its not their fault that they dont have a decent education or know information concerning birth control etc etci guess when you look at it, its a class issue, the nice middleclass kids will know all this stuff and have a sucessful life wheras the lower classes will get knocked up and get preganant..whatever, i cant say i know personally but i think its quite a vicous circle to get out of