Sex with my brother

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I still want to have sex with my brother, the obsession wont go away.

Dont worry we all go through that phaze, it will pass...oh wait whoops I was thinking of something else. Ok so why do you want to do your brother again? Is he older or younger than you? You know you have to put an end to these thoughts though right?

ROFL My thoughts exactly Helm LoL

Hahahah How is you read my mind?

the obsession wont go awayIt's something you'll have to deal with, like a gamy leg or a spastic colon. If you become obsessed with killing people, though, you need to check yourself into a psych hospital.

It's something you'll have to deal with, like a gamy leg or a spastic colonlmao! steve, you absolute legend seriously dude, stop obssessing about your brother. unless its going to happen, which i seriously doubt, you really need to get this out of your head. why dont you try watching a porno with him and see where that leads so you get get this sorted either way. it is really unhealthy to be so wrapped up in it.

hm...maybe you should tell your brother this, and then he'll kick your ass for saying it and the urge will all of a sudden go away lol(just hope it doesn't turn out that he'll want to:S that would be really gross.) just forget about it all together man.

Oh my, here we go again. This thing was already beaten to death in another thread a couple of months ago. This is like scratching a rash. Your being played.

lol ya we should tell him to get a theropist

The idea that all an obsessive crush needs is for someone to say it's wrong with enough force is, frankly, naïve. Nor does it help to tell someone to put it out of his mind - if he had that control, there wouldn't be a problem. I don't have much faith in therapy either - in this case I think SteveA is right, and it's something NYyankeeboi will have to live with and manage as best he can until it slowly fades over time.Forgive my heat, but I have read far too many people lately belittling those who post a problem, feeling superior because they don't have that particular problem, or because they are better at English expression. It makes me upset and angry.

Thank you Inelgible, everytime I come in here I get mainly negative, rude or downright nasty advice (if you can call it that). Thanks again. Take care. A lot of people on here can be really rude you know, in addition to assuming they know who I am. Predjuices they have inherited from past history and or posts. Oh well thats life for ya.

Someone once defined the word chutzpah (unbelievable gall; insolence; audacity) as characterizing a guy who, when put on trial for murdering both of his parents, asks the judge for mercy because he's an orphan.Dude, you have a lot of chutzpah.

Intresting thought. However, who would be my sponsor? In addition, is there really a 12 step program for this sort of thing?

Things like that can help you not act on certain addictions (I'm not sure about habits or compulsions). They won't get the thoughts out of your head. Are you really concerned that you'll act on your obsession?

Steve, (seriously) I really have no idea, I have been battling with this issue for over a year now. I am not sure if I act on it, that the world would stop turning or it would be such a bad thing.However, I do run the risk of getting my ass kicked like someone said earlier since my older bro is 6'4 and i am just about 6ft even. In addition, you never have success without failure, so ha. I am not sure where I will go with this.

The folks here are pretty unified in their response ("Don't do it!") I'm not sure what more we can tell you, unless you're looking for more detailed reasoning on why it would be a bad idea. The fact that there's a strong risk that you will damage or destroy your relationship with your brother and your family should be reason enough.

True Steve, very true. You are right about that.