Complex situtation

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Right, this is my first post here (i think) but i need help.Basically, i fancy this girl i know (whose the same age as me, 18), but i know that shes invovled with someone, so i wasnt going to say anything, but now there this girl whose obessed with me (but shes 15!!!) and shes really pissing me off as she is totally obessed even though ive told her several times im not interested and will never be. Basically the problem is, the girl i like now knows about this "stalker" (as we been joking) and has been talking to her, and was told that she should like me by the stalker, but she then told me that shes sorry but she it wouldnt matter if she was single, she wouldnt like me like that - i was soooo depressed last night after hearing that, but my major worry is this "stalker" knows i do like this girl, and i can just see her telling her one day. so i wanna know, since shes said that she wouldnt like me like that anyway, should i just tell her that i like her in order to stop her finding out from the "stalker"? Ive not really wanted to say anything since she was invovled with someone, but i cant decide what to do.

If you know the answer is no then I wouldnt bother mentioning it to the girl you like. If the stalker tells her then the girl probably wont even bring it up after having already told you she's not interested and even if she did I think it would not be too hard to just shrug it off.I think the most important thing is to find a way to get the stalker off your back.

yeah, thanksso far this stalker knows my email/msn plus my phone number, plus she also goes to the hockey, which is where im at every week - ive told her, if she ever turns up on my doorstep (she doenst know where i live...yet) that ill just phone the police on her

It could be a bit of a gamble...but what about contacting her parents?

yeah maybe, i dont know her parents, but i do know where she lives (me and the girl i fancy had to walk her home on saturday night, that was a pain)

Your "Stalker" sounds like shes just got a teenage crush, she will get bored with time no need to stamp on her feelings too much.

As the girl you like is currently in a relationship it is best not to confess your feelings to her as its just not a good idea, it can get very messy. When shes available again if you feel there is a bond there, give it a shot, just because shes not into you now she may be further down the line, people cannot control their feelings.

Theres plenty more fish in the sea, try a different dish! You might find something else you like!

If she changes her mind about you in the future then good for you.the rest of it though, the stalker telling and what not?Deny deny denyYou already have told her ya got a stalker and she knows who it is so there is already a matter of distrust over anything she may or may not say about you.I wouldnt sweat it.

thanks everyone, she (girl i like) told me two days ago that the other one had told her that i liked her, shes fine with it, even went out with her to the pub last night - the other girl was also there, and she didnt talk to me once she talked to my friend, but didnt even acknowledge me, i think she realised i dont want to talk to her lol

Glad to hear it old-boy