I am a fourteen year old and I really do not know how exactly to massterbate. If someone can please explain to me in as much details as possible that would be awesome. I dont want to use toys or anything like that,Please exlpain how i can masteerbate.
**PLEASE HELP*** HOW DO I MAsSTERBATE???
> I am a fourteen year old
Any particular gender?
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im a girrl
Someone please help me....need advice from an experienced gurl
Im not a woman, I did however find these that may help you.
and I stole the following from this site
Methods of masturbation
The average woman masturbates by stimulating her clitoris. She usually does this in little circular motions, either with her index or middle finger. Generally, women begin by touching themselves just above or below the clitoris, but as their excitement mounts they can tolerate more intense stimulation right on top of it.
Some women find they like the feeling of 'bulk' created by having something in the vagina at the same time. This could be two or three fingers of her other hand, or some kind of object. One word of caution: it is best to use fingers, or a sex aid designed for the purpose. Women sometimes get into trouble if they use unwashed fruit, or other items that may introduce infection into the vagina. And they should definitely always avoid anything that is breakable, like glass - for obvious reasons.
There is a bit of a vogue among some young women for using an electric toothbrush in the vagina. Pleasant though this may be, it could certainly cause damage to those delicate tissues and should be avoided.
Whether or not anything is introduced into the vagina - and this certainly does increase the excitement in a lot of women - the vast majority of females need to keep stimulating their clitoris at the same time in order to have a climax.
A few women are so highly sexed they can orgasm simply by rubbing their nipples - but this is just a tiny minority of highly-talented females! Other women discover that they can bring themselves to a climax through squeezing their thighs together. Again they are in the minority.
Vast numbers of women nowadays enjoy using a vibrator some or all of the time. There are some truly amazing products around these days and the fair sex is becoming much less timid about trying them. When a vibrator is used, sometimes a woman will use it to stimulate her clitoris. At other times she will use it in her vagina. There is no right or wrong way of pursuing solo pleasure - and a woman should experiment to find what she likes best.
Maybe something in one of those two will give you the answers your after.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.
to be honest, i think you should just experiment yourself, these things come naturally and you find out what you like, i remember when i started masterbating i didnt get things to begin with, but once you get it, you get it. just explore a bit and see what feels good... :wink:
i found that when i used to masterbate with just my fingers it didn't rele work too well but now i use an electric tothbrush on my clit and i orgasm evrytime.
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You don't exactly need "toys" . You can be like sexylady and use a toothbrush or something like that. Fingers aren't too effective but for your first time maybe you should just finger yourself. Try using more than one finger because after a while its like hardly anything is on you.
Just reach down there give the area a lil rub and see what you like. Your the only one who can decide that.
"Observe the art of seduction. Watch, learn, and don't eat my cookie."-Friends
thanks everyone but i am still having a problem climaxing. Like i can get my fingers in and everythign but it jsut burns and no pleasure comes out of it
Try not fingering yourself (ie stick you finger IN the vagina) cuz chances are you will never climax. Try gently, with a tiny bit of lube stimulating your clitoris. You'll find that the longer you rub, the better the feeling gets, until you have an orgasm.
She gasped and she sighed and she called my name.
That's the spot! You're body will let you know where the good spot is. And when you start feeling your clit tingle, don't stop keep going! You should be pretty wet at that time. Enjoy! You're still young. You'll be a pro before you know it!
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