ok, im still a virgin but ive tried 3 times with my girl to no avail.shes really tight, so when i use a condom it refuses to go in, and shes said im rather thick, the thing is, the more and more i try to push it in i lose my hard on, i think its just cause of the discomfort and just being frustrated. my main problems is that when i get hard and i try i lose my hard on really fast. its such a pain to be so thick, i just want to get it in, its so frustrating, cause i keep thinking theres something wrong with me when i lose my hard on after awhile. and i want to try without a condo but a pre-cum alot, not full ejaculation i just have a lil of it coming out. its not as thick as cum but can that make a girl pregnant? like i know i ccan pull out before i cum but im scared of the precum. i wana do it without a condom cause that could be the only way i can stay hard.. i hate condoms.. . help me pleasee.
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Major help needed
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Ello Mate, Can you finger her with 2 fingers? Her hymen might not be broken all the way, or she might not be 'open' enough.
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precum...can that make a girl pregnant?Yes, it can! And even if it couldn't, it's not always predictible when the sperm will come.Has anything been in her vagina, like a finger, or two fingers? Does she have an intact hymen? (Sometimes it's too thick to be broken by penetration.) In any case, you didn't say whether she is a virgin.Sometimes when a girl is keyed up, her muscles tense, and her vagina gets very tight, and nothing can get in there. Just plowing ahead and forcing your way in will probably be very painful and turn her off sex...at least, with you. If that is the case, she needs more time to get used to the idea of intercourse. She needs to relax, and you need to be more patient. If things are that bad, then masturbate. You can even masturbate together. In fact, you can masturbate each other.Just to reiterate, if you don't want to be a father, don't have intercourse without a condom.
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nah she aint a virgin, shes actually told me her ex was really big. thats why i was rather surprised to find that she was still really really tight :S. i can barely get 2 fingers in there. she hates being fingered though. shes told me shes not ready to do it again yet but still wants to keep trying. but me continously not being able to get it in just makes me hate myself
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I think that you really need to set the mood as opposed to just "ok, imma stick my dick in you now." You have to have some foreplay, loosen her up, make her horny, relax her. Try some oral sex, it usually does the trick for me. Once she's in the mood and ready, make sure she's wet and use some other lubrication - it helps a lot. Also, sounds like your frustrations aren't getting you anywhere, so you need to relax as well. Sex isn't a chore, its mutual pleasure.
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Don't hate yourself, it's no-one's fault. She's just nervous. Leave it for the moment, forget about vaginal sex, and wait until you are more comfortable with each other.
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yeah, i tried oral.. i think the atmosphere also plays a big role, all 3 times we tried it was in rather wierd locations. im just gettting frustrated and hating myself and thinking its my fault to a point i dont really feel like trying again.
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don't get frustrated, and don't hate yourself either. Sex takes practice, just like anything else. You can't expect to master it the first few times you go at it. Just don't lose faith. Do what all these good people told you, and don't think about keeping a hard on and going it etc, just be passionate, be sweet, be relaxed and it'll come in due time.