I can't cum!

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I am a 19 year old female who is in a long term relationship with a guy. I am also bisexual and we often have threesomes with other girls. Anyways, I have never had an orgasm in my life. But the other girls always act like the have one and are always so astonished that I have never had an orgasm before. Nothing seems to work. I don't like masturbating because I have a very small clit that just hurts when it is rubbed most of the time. Of course, it seems that they always have nice big ones compared to mine. I guess I feel the "closest" when I am being fingered on the inside or while having sex. I feel like I need to pee and it just goes away after awhile. anyways, it is really hard for me to masturbate, and I know I am going to be told that I should do that more. But really, it is useless. My fingers get tired and I don't really get much out of your standard vibrators. So is there something wrong with me? This one girl had the nerve to say that I should see a doctor about it. Is anyone else out there like me?

I don't think you need to see a doctor. There's nothing wrong with you. Many women have trouble with having an orgasms. Just be patient and keep trying.

yeah,keep trying while enjoying the suttleties of sex.cant hormone levels have that sort of effect on people

When do most girls have their first orgasm? and what should I keep trying to do? I just get this feeling that it is hopeless and I will never have one. everyone else makes it seem so easy!

i have no idea.im a guy.we dont seem to have those sort of problems .but it's not uncommon for a woman to still be chasing her first orgasm,from what i've read.maybe some girls here have advice?

There's no set age, and it's not easy a lot of times.

One of my ex gfs was like that too. She came close a few times but then nothing! So we kept at it, I told her to relax and let it flow, she did, and slowly she started enjoying sex more and more. We experimented with a lot of different positions and she found that the best one for her was on top, controlling the motion and action.Just keep at it and I dunno how this will sound, but play with yourself more until you find something that you like. Do that until you cum. Have fun and dont stress it out too much, cuz that can kill it.

try a back massager. wear panties so it doesnt get direct contact, and put it on your clit, hold the vibrator (or whatever) in place and keep it centered on your clit while fingering yourself, the vibration from the vibrator will vibrate your fingers possibly giving your a clitoral and gspot orgasm. very nice.good luck.