Wow, just discovered this site 10 minutes ago....wish i had discovered it a lot sooner. First off, happy thangsgiving break to all you people out there in school, hope your having more fun than i am now..lol. Anyway, my question is this. I am a 21 year old college student at an Idaho University, and shortly after school started, my friend Adam and I went to our Criminal Justice class and took our seats. 10 minutes into class, a girl showed up late and sat next to me. No big deal right...Well, the next day, I got there a little early and was waiting for my friend to show up when the same girl sat next to me. I wasnt going to pass up the oppurtunity and started talking with her. I learned her name and everything and every day after that she always sat next to me, even though she has two good friends of hers who attend the same class, but she prefers to sit with me instead of them (sometimes I wish she would because she never stops talking to them at every opputunity..sometimes I try to pay attention to what the professor is talking about) Anywho, I started getting the idea that she liked me and was about to ask her out when she brought up the fact early on in the school year that she had a boyfriend..so reverting to morality I decided to not ask as it wouldnt be right. Well, later on in the year she mentioned that she went to the movies with a guy at work because her and her boyfriend had seperated, and that it didnt work out because she said that she still had feelings for her ex boyfriend. Ok...hearing that, I decided to stick with my original decision not to ask her out. But this is where it gets confusing. She's always making what I feel are subtle passes, but as a guy, have a hard time of picking up on. Like one time, I wore these pants to school and she started touching them asking me what they were made of. And another time, she mentioned that here jeans were real tight because she had been working out the previous day. I notice that she's always touching her stomach and chest when she sits next to me. (Cant blame her rally, she is good looking) I would say that 25 to 30 percent of our in class conversations are what I as a guy would consider flirting. Im totally getting mixed messages here, and was wondering if some women out there have some advice on the subject, since you do come from a different plannet than us...just kidding. I cant ask my guy friends because 10 minutes into explaining it to them, they would probably call me a fag and say that I was a %$*sy for not manning up and asking her out. So, ladies, if you can shed some light on this i would appreciate it. -Have a great Thanksgiving
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Question for all the ladies..how do i know?
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Well, sometimes its all girl and well flirting and getting attention from a man, and other times she really is into you. Maybe she doesnt realize if she keeps mentioning guys you wont ask her out, so wait alittle while she if she mentions another and if she doesnt go for it, what do you have to lose?
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I just been talking to someone who was flirting for ages with someone but never made move further that the oppertunity has now probably passed.
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Hell.... go for it. Who gives a damn if she has a BF? It might not be a very serious relationship. She's obviously interestd in you.
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I agree with SDP.You snooze you lose.Strappings post ony goes to further prove this.
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Thanks for the responses, it definately boosted my confidence, just wish a few more girls responded...lol. I was pondering the conundrum about how best to go about asking her to the movies. I was thinking, the two girls in my CJ class who are her friends, should I consult them first and ask them if she likes me...I know it sounds somewhat childish but i'm scoping out all angles of the battlefield before I commit my forces. And, as I stated before prophetically, I asked my friend Brad and Luke for advice on this situation and they just said to quit being a !%ssy and ask her...my friends SUCK at advice. Any help would be appreciated. Have a great holliday.
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I'm a girl....stop being a pussy and ask her out already. Just joking.Seriously though, ask her out. She is definately into you.