Is a condom really necessary? I mean if that's your girl or man and you truly love them would being on birth control or wearing a condom make sense? After all the comments I've heard on this site about sex being a love thing or "passionate", something to that extent. So technically if it's a love thing you shouldn't care whether the girl gets pregnant or not. Or a disease since you know each other so well. That is, unless you just like having sex with various people , but then if it's with different people it wouldn't be about love? And if it's not about love then how is sex a love thing? I was wondering because everyone on here is saying something different. Just wanted to know if this is true then absolutely no one should be worried about any silly old consquences. In which case there should be no reason for condoms and birth control right?
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Technically...
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> So technically if it's a love thing you shouldn't care whether the girl gets pregnant or not.
Not everyone is Catholic. You're saying that if women chose to have sex, they should be enslaved by being constantly pregnant. I'm not sure why you think all girls want to be pregnant at all times, even if they're in love.
> Or a disease since you know each other so well.
Some diseases take a while to manifest themselves, or show up in medical tests. If I were with a woman who was using birth control, and I trusted that she was using it properly, and I was sure that we were both disease-free, I would not use a condom.
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where did catholic come from?but I see what you mean that even if the girl is in love she might not want a baby anyway. forgot that part. but should she wait just in case or does it not matter?
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The implication of what you said is that sex is only for reproduction. That is a Catholic doctrine.> but should she wait just in case or does it not matter? In case what? Some people think you should wait, some don't. There is no "right" answer. But to me, the idea that sex is only for reproduction is pretty primitive. That means that someone who's not interested in having children should never have sex.
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oh I didn't know that. but I see what you mean. But is it ok to sleep around? Or is just ok for the fun of it? It doesn't really make that much sense when people boast about sleeping with different people and then wonder why and how they ended up with something serious.
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But is it ok to sleep around? Or is just ok for the fun of it?You're asking for a definitive yes/no answer to a question about people's personal behavior. Suppose two people who recently met are guaranteed that neither has any contagious disease, they take the proper precautions, and then decide to have sex? They both did it of their own free will, in this case.Then it boils down to a qestion of morality. Whose moral compass shall we use to decide?
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ah, ok I gotcha.
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sex is different to everyone... some people just fuck around and just want the pleasure... they dont care about the person... others want it for love... its a ultimate gift of effection... especialy if you are a virgin... others further state like u said that sex is only for reproduction... its all in the eye of the beholder... and ur choices... unprotected sex is very dangerous... u can get any number of uncureable diseases... and have a baby along with that... things kids of yours and my ages cant properly care for... or be emotionaly ready for... anyway... its your and your boyfreinds choice...
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Gah *runs away from you* I am no where near having a baby right now, but i still have sex and yes with out a condom cause i use my birth control absolutely error-lessly, and since its the patch it doesnt botter me like the pills do. But there is no way, even if i loved him, that i would be willing to risk havign a kid
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You can be in love but not be ready for/want children.