okay so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little over 9 months now, and we are doing fine but there is one big issue.When we had been going out for 2 or 3 months, she was all over me sexually, (handjobs, wanting me to pleasure her etc) but then maybe after 6 months she just, like, stopped. everytime i want to do anything sexual she says no and pushes me away. i know she used to like it but i dont know what happened... anyone else have any idea??Plz Help~
Major change in sexuality?
Sounds like this is a question you need to be asking your girlfriend. None of us here are going to have her answers for you; we're not mind readers.
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Like Eddie said, you need to talk to her.Has anything else in the relationship changed? Is she distant in other ways?Take a hard look at yourself, has how you approach her changed?Hows the mental connection you two share?When you do talk to her don't go into talking about sex right out of the box. Talk to her about the relationship. About how things are going in other avenues of your friendship, then work your way around to your concerns about the sexual aspects of the problem. More than likely those problems will be revealed in talking about other parts of your relationship anyway.If you go straight to talking about sex that's all she's gonna think your concerned about and you'll have a whole new problem on your hands.
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but i cant talk to her. any time i try she tells me shushhhhhhhhhhhh and that i ask to many questions...
You're never going to have a healthy relationship if you can't talk to each other.
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Something definitely changed. It's time for you to reevaluate your relationship.
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Originally Posted By: Java_AddictYou're never going to have a healthy relationship if you can't talk to each other. yep.In my oft unappreciated opinion, if you can't talk to her, you sure is sugar shouldn't be having sex with her.
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