ok, so a lot of you probably read my post about this girl that's kind of hard to getlocated here http://www.afraidtoask.com/forums/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB14&Number=236584&page=0&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1but i know she likes me, yet she doesnt want to develop a relationship because she has had bad things happen in the past.well, last night we had this really long aim CONVO and here's a very breif snippet below.---------------------ME: natrually, the more i talk to a girl (in this particular case, you happen to be the girl), the more i find out about them, the more i find them attractive, the more i want to be friends, etc. (probably true for most people) but if i know i can't be with them / be really good friends, the more i hurt myself emotionally, the more i try to get over any attachment to them, the more i try to be "just cool" with them, so i've learned to try and not be to close with people cuz most of the time, things dont work out. ME: ok, when i told you "you look very cute today" that has nothing to do with the mystery. don't look into the "glow" so much. I simply thought you looked down right sexy... breath taking perhaps? anyways, that's beside the point HER: lol okay, i was just letting you know i definitely didnt forget that part, it made my weekME: yay :-)ME: see, this is the time where i decide if you're "worth going after" or "just cool" HER:: okayHER: well, you've been growing on me for a while now, like, i hate being on AIM just fyi, but i look forward to talking to you because you make me smile, and are always supportive and nice, and those are things i look for in all of my good friends, and honestly when you first started talking to me, i listened to what other people had to say about you without really talking to you and decided not to give you a chance at all, but i hate that i do that, which is why im not anymore, so i guess you do have a chance, but thats not like a promise ill date you, its just you definitely are on this list type thing (not that there is really a list but ya know?) ME: thanks for the compliments, they weren't necessary, but they are definitely appreciated. -----------------------So, now that I have a cell phone, we won't have to talk on AIM all the time, hehe. guess i'm a little happy. she dressed really cute today and yesterday, and when i told her this yesterday, she said that that made her week, and i was really happy anyways, good suggestions on how I can get her to ask me out (because me asking her isn't gonna work), and that'd be fantastic. any general comments are appreciated too
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Update on the GIRL :D
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so i guess you do have a chance, but thats not like a promise ill date you"For now, let's just be friends."> anyways, good suggestions on how I can get her to ask me out (because me asking her isn't gonna work)Are you looking for a magic potion? I suggest you give it more time, and if she seems like she might be interested, you ask her. Otherwise, you will likely remain just friends.(P.S.: Your bold blue text on a white background is hard to read, end it's especially annoying if the post is long, as many of yours are. Some people will just skip the post if it's hard to read.)
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In reply to: (P.S.: Your bold blue text on a white background is hard to read, end it's especially annoying if the post is long, as many of yours are. Some people will just skip the post if it's hard to read.) Thats why I use the Desert theme, it seems to make all colour fonts readable.
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so i guess you do have a chance, but thats not like a promise ill date you, its just you definitely are on this list type thing
bah she's putting herself up as 'the prize' that you have to strive for. she either likes you or she doesnt, simple as that. sif need to say "ooo u have a chance... if your good enough" that'd piss me off. but you probably are liking anything she's throwing you? if she knows this, she'll ride you the entire time.
but it seems like you're hooked on her so nothing i say will change that!
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good suggestions on how I can get her to ask me out (because me asking her isn't gonna work)
don't ask her out. get her alone. make a move on her, -kiss her. she's already hinted she likes you. just do it :smile:
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Wow, sounds like she's dangling some bait over your head, but every time you try to bite she pulls it away.She has you on a leash, and before you know it, you'll be her cuddle bitch (if you're not already). I think you either need to make a move fast, or get the hell out!
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i don't really appreciate you guys saying that. She's a really nice girl. She goes REEEEAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLYYYY SLOW in relationships. I've made quite a progress so far and I just wanted to let the community reading my posts know that. thanks for being so supportive. She's not gonna have sex till she's married so I'm not concerend about her "fucking other guys"thank you
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OK, I know it's not what you wanted to hear, but I am speaking from my excessive experience of girls saying exactly that sort of crap to me!They're only words, man. A girl a year ago said the exact same line to me, and then 2 weeks later told me she was pregnant with the guy she'd been sleeping with for the past 6 weeks!People can lie, y'know.