I've tried.... I've really tried hard... but I think it's time for me to accept my faith, which is being a fat ugly loser who will never experience intimacy. Thanks for all your help though.
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Well fat... you win. Congrats
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oh for gods sake, stop all the feeling sorry for yourself!My hubby is a fat guy and we are intimate..............just cos you have extra pounds doesn't mean that you will be alone forever, if anything your 'looking down' on yourself is more of a turn off than being big......I know quite a few people who are big/fat whatever you wanna call them, and they are all with someone or married. Get a grip, other people will not like you if you don't like yourself.
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If you can't win over a woman with your looks, than win her over with charm. Women are very respetive to charm.
Learn to be courteous, learn to flirt, learn to make her feel good about herself, learn to be fun, make her laugh and I guarantee there is a women out there who will respond favorably to you.
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Yep you're exactly right.
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Your faith, or your fate?
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shut the fuck up i dont need your fucking grammar lessons.
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..ooooo shomebody woke up on the wong shide of the bed this mowning.
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Fate and faith are significantly different. That's not a grammar problem at all, it's a mistake that gives your statement a lot less clarity. If you're going to post for OTHERS to see and respond to, then make sure that they can understand it, or be thankful that they care enough to clarify your phrase rather than passing over it since you don't know how to spell.
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Yeah I dont know how to speel, thankkks for lettinge me know!I have other things to worry about then the way i fucking type (like my enourmous gut, for a small example.)
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Just because you happen to have a little more "junk" in your trunk doesn't mean you're doomed to live your life alone. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and get out there and actually try! There are plenty of "larger" men and women who have happy relationships; you need to quit with the pity parties and just get out there and try. I agree with OldFolks, what he said is true, you do that type of stuff and you'll find a lady in no time. Don't give up on yourself just yet sweetie, you just need to put a little extra effort into it.
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If you're a fat ugly arrogant impatient hopeless shit head, put up your... hey Cloudless, wait a sec, you didn't let me finish.
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LOL yeah.. its the personality that counts! Well guess what? My personality sucks, and i dont give a shit anymore. I tried fixing my fucked up life... but it failed, because im a failure. Guess ill just start sliting my wrist, or I could grab the .357 from my dads drawer and just get it over with. I heard it's pretty painless.
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And who said its painless? Most people who have tried it are dead, and those who aren't dead were in serious fucking pain.
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Prove it. Yeah, thought so.
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You take things waaaaay to seriously dude. Now maybe if your mom was murdered by your dad, your dad was shot to death by the cops, your siblings raped you, and your being treated badly by your foster parents then I'd understand why you'd want to kill yourself. And yes I actually know someone like that. She goes to my school and she's a cutter and bolemic and I try to help her but it doesn't do any good. Helping seniors when you're a freshman just doesn't cut it. I'm sorry things are going bad for you but you shouldn't start resorting to actually killing yourself. Human life is sacred! There's more you can do with it. You only have one life. Live it to the fullest.
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Have you ever been shot? I think not! So don't try to be a smug little prick cause you know nothing! You nothing of real pain!! Or real agony!! You have never experienced the true feeling of wanting to crush your own skull, of ripping out your own heart cause every agonising second on earth is driving you fucking insane!
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... Because you know how I feel? Dumbass.
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NO I don't know how you feel, but unless you feel like what I described above, I don't give a shit. A fucked up attitude to random people is only excused by a major fucking problem, not some guy with a weight problem who is need of an attitude adjustment to get friends.
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Soooo...the the fuck do you want from us? Sympathy? HA! aint getting any. Advice? Nothing we could say would appease you. So unless you have a question/ a problem you need help with, stop bitching, find yourself a hermit hole, and goooo awwaaay! You're being nothing but a jerk and a self-absorbed lunatic!
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Well JenJen I'll step up and give cloudy what he wants.CloudlessRain, with all kidding and sarcasm aside, life is a bitch and you drew the short straw. It's not fair, it's not right and unfortunately, for you, there is nothing any of us here can do to change that. You seem either unable and/ or unwilling (I don't know which, I don't know you) to change things, in either situation or attitude, in even the most minor respect. You have my sympathy that life has been so hard for you, that you see no reason to continue the struggle. You have my pity that you can see no redeeming quality to existence and that you can not see that the capacity to change your situation is within you, even if that change is only a, self deceiving, delusional perception of what you experience and how you react to it.All I have ever tried to do is answer your questions to the best of my ability and all I ever seemed to do was piss you off, for that, I apologize. I never intended any malice in anything I said. To some degree, I think, in my life I had been where you are now and I only offered up what had worked for me, sorry I couldn't do any better.I sincerely wish you the best and hope that things change for you. Take care.