Link between high-pitched voice and homosexuality?

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Hi. I am trying to diagnose my sexuality and I know my voice is a bit weird, not as deep or as direct as other men's. Is it true that the high/weirder the voice, the higher possibility of being gay?Personally, I hope there is no link between the two, as this will mean I am gay, which I don't want to be.

That is absolutely ridiculous. That's like asking if a large penis is a symptom of being black.Seriously, what, specifically, have you done in terms of getting psychotherapy?

Are you shitting me?All screwing around aside I have to assume your joking.I it was true Id not be able to talk since I drink nearly two pots of hot coffee per day. This is aside from hot food I eat and in this season, hot apple cider with rum.In addition to this my g/f has swallowed GALLONS of hot cum in the last few years shes been with me and she has no diferent tones in her voice then she did when I met her. Not squeaky, no lisp.I rally have to assume your kidding, it certainly read that way and if your serious I have to call ahem BULLSHIT

Helms……Dude, You’re a great man and have wonderful advice, but this one is absurd!I have never heard anything so ridicules before…lol Good one though!

I would have an easier time beliving that if your theroy said somethign like the vocal cords are pierced by guys givig deep throat or that sucking cock its possible to stretch out your vocal cords or something.I cant really buy off on those either, but it seems more plausible.Consider that I also know several gay guys and while some sound 'gay' some sound as masculine as anyone else Iv ever met. They tell me horrible things I dont want to know so I know they suck man meat and swallow the throat yogurt.I simply refuse to belive that your serious, it has to be a joke.Maybe on the high of endorphins after lifting your brain was in a semi unconsious state and your buddy was fuckin with ya and this bit o irration information slipped in and got stuck?No I think your having us on.

Quit trying to "diagnose" yourself. If you're gay you're gay.. nothing you can do about it. As for the voice thing, give it up.. there is no relation. I have a medium toned voice as my ex-boyfriend has a very deep voice.Your "hour glass figure" or "higher voice' has no relation to whether you are gay or not. If you want to know if you're gay you need to look at your attraction and relationship desires to other males. Quit trying to look at other aspects of your being to find out if your gay or straight.

Unless, of course, he sounds like Queen Elizabeth.

Agreed!Just accept who you are and get on with your life….

First off yANKEE accept who you are, no matter what that is....You'll be a lot happier.>>>"Do you like boys and do you have a fasination for cock, or are you always thinking about gettin' busy with girls? It's a no-brainer really..."Its not always that simple though. Maybe your like me yANKEE, I'm complete perfect bi. If I wasn't married it would make no difference to me what sex I was with, as long as I found them interesting and attractive. If you find yourself in that situation it can be rather confusing.The moral of the story is don't label yourself. As much as society prefers you to have a label and as much as may be convenient for you to label yourself, at your age, just don't. Be yourself, that's who your going to end up being in the long run anyway.If you wanna suck that cock, then suck that cock.If you wanna lick that pussy, than lick that pussy.As long as your not hurting anyone else, then do what feel right at the time and don't worry about the label.

The OP thinks that homsexuality is tantamount to death. I don't think he will be easily convinced otherwise.

I know, but still ya gotta throw a drowing man a rope...then again, you could just point and laugh.

The trouble is, I do not want to be gay. But I think I probably am nevertheless. I fear my voice is "gay", my looks are "gay" and my mannerisms are "gay".

With these kind of paranoiae/facts, my problem is that it is hard for me to socialise with other people in case they realise I am gay. I've already had to quit college because some people thought I was gay.

I have never had sex before, nor have I had any kind of relationship, so I would like to think that I am just curious, and not properly homosexual.

I have no desire for anal sex (not even with a woman), nor do I particularly want a relationship with a bloke. My long-term ambition if life is definitely to get married (to a woman :wink:) and have kids of my own.

Most of my sexual fantasies are straight, although I do enjoy looking at gay porn every now and then.

See what I mean; it's very confusing? :scream_cat:

You're putting the cart before the horse. Your sexual orientation is the least of your issues now. It's as if you're having a heart attack and going into shock, and you're worried about a mild case of acne. The fact that you left college, however, is a huge issue.What have you done with regard to getting counseling?

Are you kidding?! I've seen guys with a voice deeper than when God spoke to Moses during burning of the bush! Who said gays had a high-pitched voices? That's stereotyping.

Gay mannerisms mean nothing. If people think a guy is gay just by the way he acts, then they don't know him and shouldn't call him gay. I know plenty of guys who "act gay" but are completely straight. I'm gay and I have a deep voice. Basically, how you act does not determine your sexuality. I'm not really sure how the whole "hourglass" thing came into the conversation, but it has nothing to do with a guy's sexuality either. I'm guessing people think gay guys tend to have it because their "supposed" to look more like women. The only reason women have this shape is because of their reproductive system. Having an hourglass shape isn't going to have anything to do with your sexuality unless you just happen to be a hermaphrodite.

Since god isnt a man or a woman (if you believei n him) then he would sound neutral, so you cant really say he sounded deep. Just an abservation.)

lol I know I meant it as a joke like in that movie Prince of Egypt when God spoke to Moses by the burning bush. Just a joke.

A person is Gay if, and only if, he (or she) has a permanent romantic and sexual attraction toward members of the same sex, and doesn't have such an attaction to members of the opposite sex. A person's voice, physical appearance, astrological sign, favourite colour, or first name (to mention a few of the thousand or so preposterous "signs" floating around out there) has nothing whatsoever to do with being Gay. Or Straight, for that matter.By the way, be gentle and give yourself a little time. Your sexual orientation will make itself known to you loud and clear in due course without anyone having to "diagnose" it before it's ready. For your own peace of mind in the meantime, you might consider lightening up on the worrying. It doesn't serve much useful purpose to waste too much energy as to what your sexual orientation may or may not be before it clearly reveals itself to you.

Seriously, there's no link. I'm bisexual but more gay than straight. I've got a DEEPER voice than most men have. A friend of mine who'se gay has a voice average for a man. Another friend of mine who'se bisexual has a deep voice. His boyfriend has a deep voice. Want me to go on?

Wait up, that thing about the semen and vocal cords has me interested! Ok, you're saying that if I suck and swallow, my voice will get higher? My voice is way too deep as it is, and kinda nasally, that's why I ask... I wanna make it a little younger. If that makes sense...