Hey guys, im glad i found this forum because i have no idea where to ask about this, its really embaressing.. i dont have a huge penis, i guess its a normal size around 5 to 6 inches. as if thats not enough my erections havent really been solid as they should be, i have only had sex twice and i get pretty hard but asoon as i switch positions or penetrate a few times i lose my erection and i know she doesnt even feel it in her, she was a virgin too so shes tight, she even asked me a few times if i was all the way in, shes been really nice about it and it seems like she doesnt care about it too much because she loves me but it bothers me alot that she cant feel me in her, im 19 now i used to have really hard erections as a younger teen around 13-16 years old, i have no idea what happend since then, even when i masturbate im hard im just not HARD like i used to be, i even measured my penis back in the day when i was 16 and it seems like when i measured it now i was about an inch and a half smaller, i think it has to do with my weak erections... i have no idea why this is happening though, i kinda narrowed it down to two things it might be and i wanted to ask anyone if they might have any suggestions what it could be. from age 16 to 19 i guess i gained around 30 lbs of weight, i wasnt sure if that had anything to do with it? another thing i thought about is i have been masturbating everyday since i was 14 so can that damage my penis? has anyone experienced this? and can i fix it??? thank you i would really appreciate it, this is bothering me so much that i cant please my girlthanksjdub
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Weak erection
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The weight gain could make the penis appear smaller, but should not have anything to do with your erections. The thing that first comes to mind when a guy begins to have weak erections is diabetes, but that seems to be inconsistent with weight gain. How long since you've had a complete physical? That might be in order.For your long term health, I think I'd try to get that weight off now. The longer you carry it, the harder it is to get rid of it.
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>it bothers me alot that she cant feel me in her
The thing with the vagina is that the sensitive nerve endings are all mostly concentrated in the first 3 or so inches of the vagina, so a girl doesn't really feel the other three. The pleasure comes with the thrusting and stuff. It's fine that she's asking if your all the way in, because it takes a little more experience to understand when you're in all the way and when you're not. I was the same way. So in general a girl can't tell whether you have 4 or 5 inches of your penis in her. Don't worry about that.
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thank you, i was really worried about that. im thinking of going to the doctor and asking about viagra or something just to help me out untill i can realy be comfortable with this whole sex situation, thanks again
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I don't think you should go to such an extreme as drugs. I think you just need to get used to sex, be relaxed a bit more, find your sex drive. Have patience. If it doesn't settle out in a while, then try getting medical help.
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I had/have a similiar issue... my ex took well over an hour to finally make me blow my load while she was giving me a hand-job.A lot of it for me was performance anxiety and worry/doubt about what she thought about me. Try to relax and rememeber you have a beautiful girl who is supportive... and she's naked lying in bed waiting for you to be inside! Go get 'er tiger.