Okay well then, I don't know where to start umm hmm. Well you all know the story..had a really bad crush got turned down and yeah I fucked up somewhere. Well neways I decided I'd try to get over her by just ignoring her on messenger and it was all going well untill my friend went and tried to convince her to go out with me he said some stuff like... why would u want to go out with Josh again he's an ass, zach would treat u 10 times better than any other guy. Yeah well my friend learned that she still has a thing for her ex even though she broke up the relationship :s, damn insecure people. Well neways after he did that I still kept on not talking to her, several days after he did that she said to me right before she went to bed: haven't talked to you lately hopefully talk to you sometime soon..she said that 2 nights in a row... I'm guessing she was just trying to pull me in again since she didn't like the fact that I was stopping the chase.. I haven't talked to her for about 1.5 weeks now... What should I do? I don't really have the urge to talk to her unless she starts the conversation but I'm afraid that if I don't talk to her and explain my friends actions some bad karma will come from it. Any suggestions?
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I need your help yet again...
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If you don't have the urge to talk to her, then don't! lol. You'll never get over her if you keep slipping back in. As for what your friend did, not a big deal at all. She probably didn't think anything of it. You're making too big of a deal about it. Just keep ignoring her and move on. You're doing good so far, just keep going :smile:
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just leave the situation alone
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Prehaps you need to learn to think for yourself for a change. Your more a Tool than a Weapon imo
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Well my alias for this game I used to play online was Weapon so that's why I put that as my name on here.. and yeah man like I said be4 I'm a noob, noobs need help from the experts to get good.
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See the thing is I have the urge but then I don't have the urge at the same time, lol...
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Dude, just don't talk to her at all. Leave her be so that you can get over her.
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I know exactly what your going through. I'm actually in sort of the same situation. I haven't talked to my ex in... hmmm... over a month and a half I think.I stopped talking to her before because she wanted me as a friend and I was romantically interested. Unfortunately, I was sucked back in by her telling me that she missed me and blah blah blah. Although I felt I was over her, I really wasn't and was sucked back into the old situation.Max is right, you need to think about yourself for right now. If you're going to talk to her don't initiate conversation, keep it brief, and don't put too much interest into the convo. Avoid asking her deep questions if you ask any at all. If you're like me, you want to keep her as a friend but don't want to get sucked back in. The only way to do that is to lose romantic interest which only goes away with time.