Ok so this girl wants to give me a BJ and I've never had one before and she's given them to like 4-5 other guys. I'm really nervous about my size and have been self conscious my whole life. I'm about 6.5-7" long and about 5" circumference (all while erect). Should I be worrying or not?
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Welsome to A2A, Purpleandred.
Worry about lasting, and not your size. You're bigger than average. Just make sure to get straight with her before hand what to do with your cum. -
Originally Posted By: readytogoWelsome to A2A, Purpleandred.Worry about lasting, and not your size. You're bigger than average. Just make sure to get straight with her before hand what to do with your cum. I already asked her bout the cum, just a question, how long on average should you last with a bj?
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It varies a great deal. Some guys find it very stimulating and cum very quickly, while others find it so different from what they are used to that they don't cum at all. There is no 'right' time to last.As readytogo said, you are significantly bigger than average. Average real length (along the top and not pressed in) is probably about 5 1/2 inches; average girth about 4 3/4".
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Originally Posted By: Ineligible
It varies a great deal. Some guys find it very stimulating and cum very quickly, while others find it so different from what they are used to that they don't cum at all. There is no 'right' time to last.
As readytogo said, you are significantly bigger than average. Average real length (along the top and not pressed in) is probably about 5 1/2 inches; average girth about 4 3/4".
That's so weird for me to read. My whole life I've been extremely self conscious about my size. EXTREMELY. Still am a little bit, guess I'll know more after tonight.
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I think often it is a matter of general self-confidence. If you have a lot of confidence in yourself, a smaller-than-average penis would matter no more than being a bit less tall than average. If you don't have much confidence generally, you can feel inadequately endowed at any size.
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Listen to ineligible, seriously! I'm fucking five foot four and clock in at about 6 inches andna less than average girth. I've never had any problems with my sex life, I've had about 8 partners now and i've never had a complaint. I used to be so self conscious before i was sexually active, I soon learned that I was worrying about NOTHING, I am who I am and I can't change that, I'm very happy with myself and you should be too. Confidence is all that matters!
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Size definitely doesn't matter to much. Especially with giving head its ALOT harder to do with bigger guys.
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Size doesn't matter much for blow jobs, I'm around 9 inches. And the only issue I really had was one tried to deep throat and it didn't end well. But she was new to the whole thing anyway.There's not really anything to worry about.