there's a girl i'm interested in, and i'm pretty sure she is interested in me. the only problem is i'm almost positive she has a boyfriend. how should i ask her about her boyfriend? should i just be blunt and say "tell me about your boyfriend"?
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Boyfriend
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should i just be blunt and say "tell me about your boyfriend"?Sounds good to me. Or you can mention him in passing, as in "blah blah blah I'll bet when you and your your boyfriend do / go to blah blah blah", to give her the opportunity to let you know.
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I wouldn't mention it in passing, as steve said, as some girls might get shy about correcting someone that they don't, in actual fact, have a boyfriend... I think it's better to just ask
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ask her, but just be polite. dont be blunt
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If your not seeing anyone then why dont you let me take you out sometime?Its that easy
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I often say things like, "I'm not making any boyfriends jealous by hanging out with you, am I?" or "Your boyfriend is a lucky guy". Hope this helps.
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"so you single?"
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I might say, that's a MUCH better picture. You're very handsome.
(I know off topic but just wanted to comment)
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"If your not seeing anyone then why dont you let me take you out sometime?Its that easy" I like what Chance said.. I would ask her pretty much the same way. If thier relationship is rocky or ending, she might og out with you, and that would give her the chance to tell you about it.. Wemen do not like being put on the spot. As much as they proclaim to want frankness and truth.. they really don't!
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My G/F sometimes reads thru this site and so I refuse to discuss numbers of girls Iv been with. We talked about it, niether of us want to know an accurate number for the other it only leads to problems and we are both clean, desease free and only with each other so it really doesnt matter.I will however say that that sentence, leads to 90% of all the first dates I had. There is never a time to not use it.Girls I met talkig in line at the store to girls at a bar to girls pumping gas or shopping all the way to girls Iv known for a long time who just got out of a relationship. Initiate a conversation, it goes well and there seems to be interest, use it. Its not a line, Just a question. ' If your not then let me and we will see what happens from there.'Its simple and basic and straight to the point. It also offers them an easy out if they were being polite and dont have any interest in you.Easy to remember and simple and nonoffensivememorize it, use it. Its tried and proven.
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here's a dialogue I remember: "so what's his name""who""your boyfriend""I don't have a boyfriend""oh really?""yeah why?"... and it goes on from there. just giving an input.