Can the dick still go inside the pussy if not hard

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i have very bad problem of staying hard with a condom on, its going to be my first time, i know lube would help getting it in, but i lose my erection quickly even with lube, my gf is really tight, we've tried before a few times, and shes said im rather thick, and after trying a few times and not getting it in im kinda frustrated and i dont feel like i want it anymore. but i wana still give it a shot. just wondering, if im on the verge of it going in, and i start losing my hard on, if i keep pushing it, would it go in? or do i need to be hard?

Well it needs to be relatively firm. Use lube and use your fingers first to loosen her up and help her relax.

tried that.. we've tried 3 times already, its really frustrating,when it doesnt go in i start losing my erection, ive licked her out, fingered her like crazy,done everythig to try and relax her.

I note this is an ongoing problem for you, and that means it's very important to stop trying for a while. Take a step back, don't try for penetration, just aim to get you and your gf comfortable with each other.

yeah, thats what we've been doing now.. alot of foreplay and stuff, just getting used to each other being close and stuff.. i think we going to try again soon, whats a way to stay hard even with a condom on? i tend to lose it when i try getting it in and it doesnt go in

One thing I would suggest and that would be to use a different position. I don't know if your trying missionary (facing each other). Or doggie style (rear entry - I actually would recommend this one. It opens my wife up more and also positions the vagina where it is more directly accessable by me. Cowgirl - Her on top, again not a bad one, but I have absolutely no experience with this one since my wife won't try it. Or check out some others. The point being get Slot A where it is easier to insert Tab B.

Also, the morning is a better time than the evening.

ok i dont mean to insult but how canit be ur first time if u've tried its before??? i sense a lie

we've tried so many times but to no avail, seriously, its so frustrating, at first i thought it was my fault, like we tried so many positions, i tried putting it in, didnt go in, she tried putting it in, didnt go in., only position we havent tried is doggy, she said she doesnt like it.

and yeah i agree morning is better. but yeah, we're teenagers, its hard to be together cause both our parents are pretty strict.

to the noob. we've tried 3 times, doesnt mean the dick acctually went in.

well if u lose your erection putting on the condom then you might try having her do it ive heard that can help

This is just a thought... I usually don't reply to posts like these, but I gotta tell you, I feel bad for you, that must be very frustrating and humiliating.I was shown a trick with condoms by a girl I dated. if you take a new unlubed condom out of teh wrapper, unroll it, and then cut the rubber ring off the opening, you can use it for a makeshift cockring. just get a stiffy worked up, and double up the ring, like make it go around twice, put it on all the way at the bottom, then put your good new lubed seocnd condom over your john-thomas and go to town. if you are getting limp while putting on the condom, think of arousing things, and get a good stiffy up again. use the clothes rack muscles. You know what I mean? Ever get a hard-on, then use it for a towel rack, and if you flex a certain muscle you can bounce the towel up and down? Gee, that's hard to explain, but I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. Ever see the guy who ties cinderblocks to his one-eyed spitter, and can lift them? eh, ok, maybe I am the only one who watches those tv shows... anyhow...if you flex that muscle with a cockring on, you'll pump ole willy full of blood and he will be a rock. At that point, your girlfriend better hold on to the bed with all her might, if she's that tight, because that is gonna hurt her like hell. That's the worst thing about virgins and big guys. You know they want to take a ride on the bologna pony, they look eager to take it all in, but as soon as you get the head in, and you commit yourself to slippingher the rest of the salami, you see that look on her face, and the tears well up. You feel really bad about it, and you apologize like crazy, but you just can't help but see the pain in her eyes. Then you get that crazy talk out of her, where she can't decide what to do because it hurts, but it feels good, So she says, don't stop, but the look on her face says, "take it out!" Of course, once you convince her that there should be a 2nd time, and a 3rd time, you don't see that look anymore, instead you see nothing but the "Oh face" on her. The "oh" face is great. Well, good luck.

how do you manage to makethe ring part go around twice?? i can barely fit it on.

jeez! ok, see, I am not exactly hung like a horse. Either that, or you do know that condoms come in different sizes?? It's a bit of a stretch to get it to double over, and deffinitely dangerous to cut off your blood flow for too long. If you use a condom that is too small or too big you run the risk of it breaking during rough sex. Tight is key, though. If not tight, then snug to say the least. Grab the base of the shaft and squeeze it when you are hard, notice the top bulges out because you are forcing the blood up and trapping it. Cockrings are designed to cut off some of the blood flow keeping your old feller fat and happy. Most of the commercially available rings are designed so that you put them on when you are flacid, and as it becomes erect, the ring restricts blood flow from exiting your swollen member. I have never bought a cockring before. Hell, I haven't had sex since April 4th 2004! LOL anyhow, good luck

In reply to:i can barely fit it onI think that may be the key - you may be using condoms that are too small for you, therefore too tight. Condoms that are too tight make it hard to maintain a full erection.

the harder you try the more difficult it can be. So relax about the whole issue. No, don't relax that much! First, try to find condoms that fit snugly not tight. Second, try any position you can think of - partner willing. Third, before inserting, try to loosen up the opening - fingers, dildos, etc. but no frozen hot dogs please. Fourth (from a women's lib type) allow the vagina to envelop the penis rather than trying to insert the penis into the vagina. Fifth - if all else fails, try inserting (but not sex) without a condom. Sixth - try getting oral from her with a condom on - but please coat it with her favourite jam, peanut butter or whipped cream first.

That's some good advice, but just one question...Peanut butter? LOL Why not some Campbell's chunky soup, fills you up right! (no pun inten... err yeah, I was intending that, sorry!)Sorry, I'm just kidding, I would never have associated peanut butter with sex though. You learn something new, each day.

actually peanut butter is full of protein and other good stuff so it is filling, nutruitious and very tasty. So whether it's on a sandwich for lunch or on a penis for a oral sex, peanut butter is great. Though no one says you can't add jam and marshmallow topping too if you don't mind a few extra calories with all the protein.

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