Right on, like i said I hope to learn from this mistake.
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Asking a girl out of nowhere tomorrow, NEED ADVICE
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i dont know why, but i just read your whole post and i want to tell you soemthing. DO NOT over think things. take things as they are and talk to the girls. i've made SOOO much progress by talking to the girl that i had an amazing crush on, and sure things didnt turn out how i exactly wanted them to, but i'm now much mcuh closer with the girl that i wanted to be close with than just blowing her off... who knows, u could have gotten a blowjob or a girlfriend by now. just talk to girls in general and dont be afraid to go out on a limb... heck, there's probably tons of girls at your campus anyways.
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Know anyone who knows her? Get her email and send her a message, or you can search myspace for her any any other similar online stuff. Nearly everyone uses the internet if you know her name you can maybe find her. If not ask one of her friends for her phone number. Of if you see her around in the mall or somthing just go up and tell her you wanted to get to know her last semester but never got around to it then give her a piece of paper with your number on it and tell her to give you a call and you guys could maybe do lunch or somthing. Dont let the conversation last too long you dont wanna run out of things to say. Just keep it brief and to the point so she thinks "hrm this guy seems interesting, I wanna know what hes about" then if she calls she calls if she doesnt then shes not interested so move on. Im sure you will see her agin sometime just be prepaired for when you do with your number in your wallet.