why would we want to?
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Can women do what men try to do?
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why would we want to? -You probably wouldn't. Just curious to see if you can... :-P
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I personally can go nonstop for hours, ejaculate and still keep going with a full erection. It's mainly in your mind, but also deals with your diet, stress level, you ability to control your ejaculation (which is what actually tires you out and makes you lose your erection) etc. etc. Lots of things you can do. For starters, you should practice contracting your PC Muscles (the muscle you use to hold back urination). For men and women this makes for a much stronger orgasm, and also a better feeling. In men it also helps prolong and achieve bigger stronger erections, and in women it helps keep the coochie tight as well as enhance orgasms.
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I can hold off. All I've got to do is think about NASCAR or baseball, or how early I have to be at work the next morning and BOOM, an orgasm is no more.
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Anybody else care to comment on this? Still working on it, but not getting very far!
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I've never tried holding off, I find it hard enough to orgasm as it is. good luck with what your research, sorry I couldn't be more helpful!
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Really? Ok, how long does it normally take you? Do you think your "o" would be more intense if you took longer? Or is that really not an option?
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well I've only actually managed to orgasm once, and that took about 30 mins i think, i kind of lost track of time, but i've spent longer trying before. Sometimes I guess I'm just not in the right frame of mind, or I get bored of trying. It can be feeling really good, but then it just stops feeling so good. Maybe I'm not doing it right or something, or need more lubrication or something. I've only had sex twice, and didn't orgasm then.
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no lol i usually cannot control it
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Thanks for your comments - so there's at least one girl on here who struggles with self control
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I find it really hard to keep doing the same thing but not have an orgasm....i need to keep stopping in between or ELSE lol....but yeah. The only thing is that for me ive tried so many times to have an orgasm during sex but it just wont happen..i only have an orgasm through oral sex.
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well I understand where you're coming from, but I think its the same for girls and boys for holding back, everbyody has a point of no return you know, obviously you have to cum when you do, but its just the whole process I guess, including arousal that takes longer for girls, so were just one step behind you.
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I dont think its really a fair question. like we dont need to, we can like keep going after we cum. so it doesnt really matter. And it seems different with girls i can be pretty satisified just getting close. But it seems like with guys once they get close they need to cum to be satisified.