las night i was with my gf. bout 7 - 9. it was about 65 maybe 70 degrees outside. kinda chilly. anyways she was sucking me and jacking me off . didnt seem to have a problem. but fucking 3 hours later i still havent cum.when i masterbate i usualy take 10 min. im 14. about 6.5 inches. and i jus wouldnt cum. any reason y? i always cum when i msterbate. could it be that it was cold?
well it could be the cold. Though if you could maintain an erection in a cool environment, maybe it is more than just the air being chilly.
Think of what you were thinking about. Were you enjoying the pleasure being provided to your penis or was your mind more into something else. Like you were worried about being out of doors where you might have been caught. Or do you have an exam or something else that was keeping your mind away from your penis.
Also, I get the impression this was your first time with someone (other than your hand) in a sexual activity. So it could be that you were nervous. More than a few guys have real anxiety about how well they will perform which tends to make them worry themselves right out of an orgasm when the opportunity arises.
I suspect this one may not be your problem but I will toss it in just for the sake of completeness. If you are not physically/sexually attracted to her or to girls in general then having sex with her isn't going to work well. Guys who aren't really into girls go the gf route out of peer pressure, family expectations or other reasons and they don't perform very well at all since it isn't their thing.
Although you don't mention being sick, that too can cause a decrease in sex drive and result in no orgasm.
Overall, from what you said though I suspect a combination of first time nerves, concern over being caught and cold. Next time, try to find a private warm place.
o alright thanks. im not gay at all lol. but it was kinda my first time. cuz sum other gurl sucked me but didnt finish it was at skewl and bell rang so i think i was a lil nervous.
Welcome to A2A, unknownkid.
Quite a lot of guys find it difficult to cum from oral or hand jobs. You have less control over the rhythm than you do when you're doing it to yourself, or when you're thrusting in vaginal sex.